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PostPosted: Wed Oct 27, 2010 4:39 am 
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This girl I knew a few years back has very recently broken up with her long term boyfriend. Before she started dating him, I was told multiple times by friends of hers that she thought I was hot and was really into me.

However, I haven't spoken to her in nearly two years, and her relationship status today was just changed to "single". And now her status update is ":(" haha

Any tips on how to approach this situation?... she's def. an HB8


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 27, 2010 11:32 am 
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I would probably wait a few weeks at least. If you hit her up too early not only will you seem like a predator who's been waiting for a shot at her, but she'll also probably be in a weird post-breakup emotional state right now. And I personally wouldn't want to be stuck dealing with that. :wink:

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 28, 2010 3:12 am 
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Right, I'm gonna wait, but just curious what I should say because it's been so long.. I haven't spoken to her since she started dating that guy basically. So either way, it's kind of obvious...


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 28, 2010 3:33 am 
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I just went through this 2 weeks ago with a girl that used to intern where I worked...she just left my house a few hours ago.

I'd maybe "like" one or two of her posts to slowly get back into her facebook world. After that, maybe comment on a post or two. Then...chat her up sometime when she's on. Don't push the PUA too hard the first time.

Honestly though...an HB 8/9/10 knows she's going to have options and she can respect a guy not hitting on her while she's dating someone. Also, remove your Relationship Status completely. If you want to do any gaming...that's just going to get in the way and bring up awkward conversations down the road.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 28, 2010 7:52 pm 
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obviously wait a bit, but how much depends on how independent / co-dependent this girl is. i've known girls who can't stand to be single and got in a new relationship within 2 weeks of breaking up with their previous bf. so if she's that type, wait a week. if she's pretty independent wait a month. otherwise, somewhere in between.

the fact that you haven't talked to her is a good thing because you haven't put yourself in the friend zone. do kinda like Mig said and just ease in to it. maybe even pretend like you don't know she's single at first, after all you don't want her to think you're facebook stalking.

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