I figured some of you would find this helpful. I hate plugging a site, especially if its subscription based, but I had a lot of luck here.
Here's a link to 7 day free trial at match.com.
http://boldcoupons.com/match-com-free-trial/
That'll work if you already have a free account too. I hate paying for stuff, so I use this trial and go on 7 day online sarges. I think match has a way better response rate than okc and pof.
You can also use this offer on an account multiple times. I think you can use it every six months, but I don't know the exact timespan. Also, if you have one of those prepaid credit cards laying around with $0 on it, it'll work and you don't have to worry about canceling your account.
Cheers