Hey 'm looking for some advice on what to put in a message/ do with this girl on facebook.

First let me give you the story(short), we work together and have been firting a lot at work I'm 99% sure she's interested the IOI are all thre. I asked her out and she said she was busy all week saying I should add her on facebook :s. She's changed her profile picture 3 times since I added her on Monday. As she's never online at the same time as me should I send her a message or wait untill I she her at work on Friday?

Can either be direct and message her or play it kool and wait until friday, what do you feel is best? Personally I'd wait til friday now, only 1 day and a bit away (UK time) and just have a laugh, then after message her. Escalate in person, leave a good feeling and you'll be on her mind, therefore probably hear from her first.

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I would send something short and seemingly insignificant. Maybe run the poke routine (when she pokes back you say..."didn't your parents teach you not to poke strangers?") or maybe just a quick message saying something short/interesting (from the text message games on here, "Did you know that a blue whale's tongue weighs more than an elephant!? That's insane!"). I would want to try and build some quick comfort and guarantee she's hot & ready to see me on Friday at work.

Thanks guys, I waited untill tonight and as where waiters we cant really talk much. That said we were brishing passed ach other more than needed and she felt my ass "acidently". That said she ran out the door after her ride home. . . What to do now?

Oh also I was talking with other girls and I noticed her body language changed while I was with them.

update: Tried to talk to her on FB chat twice now and she hasn't responded however her body language is still + when I'm with her. Should I send her a PM and if so what or should I wait till friday and invite her out after work and blantly call her out about it?

If she's ignoring your Facebook chats, than either she's losing some interest or she wasn't paying attention to the browser window. Either way, it's a bit of a DLV to be ignored...so you have two options. Call her out on it in a funny way, "Didn't your parents teach you it's rude to ignore someone's Facebook chat?" or my personal preference...make her realize what she's missing.

I had a girl ignore two of my Facebook chats recently, so I stopped all contact with her immediately. The next night she was texting me asking me where I'd gone and why I haven't been talking to her. Two days later, I'm still ignoring her. You have to make her realize you're a "busy" guy with lots of "options" and you don't put up with any flakes. You either do this directly or indirectly as I prefer. Honestly though mate...forget the online game and start doing it in person if you can. It's much easier...quicker...and more effective. It takes some nerve but it's less likely to backfire when you can use body language with every word you say. This girl does work with you...so don't push too hard/sexually...but a light flirting at work never hurt anyone. Start reading the other sections of the forums and you'll have no problem! ( Also...since you're Facebook friends...clean up your profile, make it DHV, and go out and do fun stuff and post about it. Make your life seem so awesome that she won't want to miss out on it. )