We've mentioned it in conversations online a few times and she says she wants to. I've asked her officially once but she said she was busy. Then just minutes later (on her facebook) I noticed one of her friends asked her to do something and she said yes. So obviously she says she wants to but, she must not?

I don't want to keep talking to her if I'm never going to meet her. Plus the longer I wait the more nervous I'll be. What should I say to her without sounding desperate?

Give her a time & place, if she consents it's on. If not, move on. Sometimes these things just happen!

I'm kind of going through the same thing, except she'll sound excited and swear we're hanging out and then she'll cancel because of something she already had planned. If she was going to blow me off, why not just say she's busy already or she's not sure yet?

Yeah all girls must do this. Even a couple years back there was a girl I met up with once. It went great and I thought we were going somewhere. Then when I asked to meet up with her again she actually was busy the first couple times. But because I kept asking it must have seemed desperate and she went cold on me. Then me being obsessive I just kept texting and texting...

In the end it went from "you're super cute" (she said something like that, plus all these other compliments) to "fuck off, you're a creep" (she really said that). Lesson: Don't text/contact too much.

Let's hope someone will respond with experience on this and help us.