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| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Wed Dec 16, 2009 2:06 am Posts: 54 | | Hey guys, here is the briefing:
I met her at uni in like october, we've always small talked. I'm an international student so i go to my own country every summer. I finally decided to get her on msn so we could talk more in like early july.
I drop a line every 5-6 days
Conversations always go well. I'm just annoyed because she never initiates conversation. I have, 3 times already dropped comments and signed off(blocked her temporarily lol) because i realised that it really gets her and she has to shout me as soon as i log back on.
What i have done up to this point to make her think about me for a bit and make her shout me is:
1 - You know u seem alot different to how i thought u were when i first met u, anyways i gtg ttyl *gone*.
2:-
Me - you know what i like about u?
HB8 - what?
Me - *gone*
3:-
Me - You know i really enjoy chatting with u, we really seem to get along
Too bad tho
I would be attracted to u
HB8 - would be?
Me - yup, gtg cya
The followup to the third one i just voiced my concerns that i felt she was playing the innocent act with me... she also called me out on that tactic, but i denied lol
We also agreed to "hang out" when i got back, i never said date or anything like that.
Last night she said that it bothered her i didnt believe her that she was not a player.
ALRIGHT NOW TO MY CONCERNS
SHE NEVER INITIATES CONVO UNLESS I SET IT UP... THIS IS A RED FLAG IN MY HEAD
I am extremely worried about falling into the friendzone...
Should i not talk to her until i see her again? i mean i always thought it was alpha to talk to a girl when u wanted...
should i drop the bullshit and tell her im interested, no bullshit? or should i keep her guessing...
She really has opened up to me and told me that shes been with less than 5 guys...
My good friend who bounces at her favourite bar told me he sees her leave with guys alot and shes a night rider, but he exaggerates... so i dunno who to believe. I dont care about her past, i just dont want to deal with a player... i want a relationship...
Me being....Direct.... i feel like i should just be honest and if she doesnt like it oh well... but my game lasts at one nighters, i have no idea what to do for relationships.
any tips guys?
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