This is going to be relative to more than just online game. Most of us have been an afc at some point or another. I'd guess most of us were afcs and either reformed or are working at reforming now. Most of us have been there. Most of us have also had moments where we spotted one girl and went on to believe she was different from all other girls. She's "special". Now I'm not suggesting that there aren't special people for each of us out there. I'd have to think there are. But the younger you are, the easier it is to believe that some certain girl i different. She wouldn't do the things that these other girls do. She's above others. Blah blah blah blah. With the vast majority, this isn't the case. It's your mind creating a perfect image for an imperfect person. Forgive the bluntness and crudeness here. But she's probably blown an absolute stranger at a party. She's probably led one guy on to get to his hotter friend. She's probably cheated on one of her boyfriends even though in her mind she doesn't consider it cheating. There have probably been a number of one night stands. She's probably been a tease for whatever reason. The longer a girl has been on this planet the more likely each of these has happened and I doubt very few women make it out of their college years without doing every one of these. They probably have on numerous occasions. You really never know anybody My point being, quit treating these women as if they are beyond your reach. Quit bowing down. There are very very few impressive women. They can just about all be obtained by somebody. Put yourself in the best position for that person to be you. In my experience, women don't complete unless in a relationship. There are exceptions sure. But most are looking to not be lonely. They don't like the loser status that comes with not having a boyfriend. Sometimes you will simply have luck because you're the only one that asked. Have the nerve to do that. Keep it to just going out if you don't want the relationship tag. Do what works for you. But they can all be had. Just keep moving forward and for those that waste yru time toss them to the side.