Ok so i met a girl, found out she lives 2 hours away and now im facebook talking, i asked if she comes london a lot she said not really but has relatives there

Should i wait for her to talk about a meet maybe me going up there for the weekend or her coming down here for a day or something? Or should i just ask her once i know were in a comfortable stage?

Just ask her once things get comfortable or by then it may just work out for you.

Build comfort, become "flirty" friends, if you really want to set her up for the future dont just facebook chat but call and talk every once in a while. Apart from that don't put too much attention on her and just keep her interested, so if she is around u are in a position to ask her to meet. If you do this at such an early point and her being 2h away from you it shows how needy you are!

Just role with it and consider her someone you are keeping for later .

Best of luck,
Len

I was actually considering this, poke her back every like 2 days, start convos every few days, etc..? Basically as if i dont care and just work with the other girls ive got?

Well actually I'd ask a little more of you . Instead of pretending to not care you should try and actually not care. She is one of many, however interesting she cannot be your primary target at the moment. So, if you enjoy talking to her -> keep talking to her, if you don't -> don't. Really what I'm saying is you don't need to reduce everything to PU sometimes (or very often) just go with your feelings (actual feelings, not that horny teenager in all of us wanting to get his needs tended). If you think she is worth the effort and you enjoy keeping contact please do, if not she is 2h away and you shouldn't have a care in the world.

Len