| Ok. High quality problem here. I am hoping someone else has run into this. I set up a date with a HB7 online and we met at a coffee shop. She seemed like a sweet, shy, dorky, cute girl. I also thought that if she wore a little makeup she could easily be a HB8. Seemed a bit wierd. Brought a book with her but I though, hey, she got here before me and a book in a coffee shop is not all that wierd....anyway.
So we drink some coffee, hit up Dave & Busters and play some games then go for a walk. I use some of Mystery's vulnerability routines. Tell her how I got made fun of in High School, how scared I was in the gas chamber at boot camp, etc. Works like a charm. She starts opening up and telling me more about herself.
Long story short. On the walk I mention that I have been in a few fights and I go into my "Have you ever been in a fight," routine. She replies "No, but I have been hit hard, and I like it." She then goes on to tell me about the crazy sexual acts that she likes performed on her....Now, I have had some kinky sex in my day but she was vetting me to see if I would kidnap and then rape her...
Ok, so here is my dillema. On the one hand I have an opportunity for some crazy, kinky sex that is light years beyond the sex that I have already had. On the other hand there is the fear of me unleashing her inner psycho and ending up as a carpet in her basement...
I am formulating a list of things that I would need if I did indeed decide to take her up on some wild, kinky sex.
1) Tests, for both of us...HIV, Hep, the works.
2) A well established safety word
3) Some kind of a written agreement that will protect me from any legal ramafications if she decides that somewhere between the dog collar and the golden shower this whole dealie turned into rape.
So, I am hoping that someone has some insight/advice for me.
Thanks!
And yes, before anyone calls me out on this I am fully aware of the fact that this is a fool's mate.
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