Ok so I recently set up a POF profile and messaged two women who I got responses from. The first one I just dropped a line with a question and she responded, after a message or two back and forth I gave her my number, and she gave me her's.

Question here is, what do I do now? How long do I wait to message her, should I play hard to get and wait to see if she messages me first? Here is the Message as it was delivered to me. (Numbers blocked obviously)

ME:Well I gotta bounce off of here, meeting some friends for a poker game. But you seem pretty cool, I don't think I have to worry about you being a stalker or anything

Here's my cell, hit me up with a text some time if you like.

xxx-xxx-xxxx


Her: im a crazy stalker! haha jk.. ok cool well heres my number as well, xxx-xxx-xxxx-names alex, good luck at ur poker game.


Second question is about the other girl, I had seen her profile and it said that she liked redheads so I thought what the hell and added her to my favorites since I was still getting my profile together and wanted to message her. I sent the following message;

Me: You are probably wondering why I added you to my favorites, and it was simply because you seem like a fun girl, and you said that you liked red heads as well, which I just so happen to be

Anyways I'm just on here for friends right now and you seem like somebody cool so I was curious if you would be interested in chatting or something.

Bet you thought this was gonna be a cheesy come-on huh? Your not THAT special! (Joking)]/b]

(Her response did not come until two days after reading my message)

Her:Well yes I was wondering...at first I thought it was maybe something you do on a regular basis to just get attention but, I do love those red heads so...I don't really respond to a lot of these messages, but your red hair and sense of humor make an exception. So, hope you're having a good weekend! Maybe hear from ya later

Again same thing here, I got her interested, but not sure how to proceed! I'm excited but I feel lost as to what to do.

HALP!!!!

First girl i would text something like "Hey crazy stalker, are you still parked outside my house again ? hahaa j/k Poker game went well, are you any good at poker ?" or "Hey crazy stalker, are you still parked outside my house again ? if you get cold sitting in your car i suppose i could make you a cup of coffee aslong as you promise to stop stalking me!"
I would send something along the lines of "Glad to hear you don’t just reply to anyone But I am not just anyone, i am better than 99% of guys on pof which is probably why women keep filling my inbox with their best chat up lines like “i like you red hair!” and “you look sexy with that red hair” its like seriously is that these women’s best chat up line ?

Well anway i am thinking of deleting my profile (getting bored of these messages!) If you want to keep in touch give me your hash, we can maybe be crack berry addicts together!"

Oh btw: dont copy the messages word for work, change them to your style and remember they are not polished so polish them a bit