I have had nothing but bad luck on plenty of fish. its been a month and so far no date close. I had 2 flakes in the matter of 2 days.

I am still having the problem of date closing online. Basically my conversations go from hey whats up to what else are u into? and talking fluff.

This guy I'm trying to agme lives in my town. My town is very small so it's not hard to figure out who everyone is, but wierd thing is I can't figure out who he is in my yearbook. I have never seen him in my life. As for my profile, it says Somewhere in LA..he asked me where I was from but i dodged the question.

The last message he sent me was How do u suggest I build comfort and attraction with someone who I don't know? I dont want to deal with flakes again, suggestions on how to date close him?

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did you make first contact?

If you just want sex, put something like "Whan can we meet up as i want to suck you dick." i would be pretty confident on a fclose just for that line.

If you want a serious relationship make him tell you things deeper about himself like, "what where you scared of when you where growing up ? wait until you hear my answer" ....

When I was doing online dating (eughhhh!!!), I would steer the conversation so that I could bring up a bar / restaurant / coffee house / play / event etc etc etc and just come out with, for example; "Hey, I've heared the food is awesome at Luigis! Wanna go with me Friday and see for ourselves?"

90% of the time I would ask this at the end of day 1.
If I got a "hmmm, I dunno" response or a "no" I'd move on (and let them know). Its a dating site, not a fcking chat room dont waste my time and cash. People are different through IM and e-mail than they are in real life anyways. I wouldnt bother spending too long trying to build comfort and attraction online. Better to get him face to face and do it instead!


I'm a dude tho, no idea if this works both ways. Pretty much all a girl has to do is smile, look good and ask me to get a date, lol.