I've recently edited my profile on POF and its been doing really well. Have been getting lots of hot girls messaging me back and getting lots of numbers. My problem is the phone game transition from online to phone.

When I get a number should I call right away? Also, not sure if my profile gives off a more "friends" vibe, how can I easily transition to something more sexual, to lead into a date.

You can check out my profile on POF, username mr.adventure.

Rob

this might be lame of me but, POF?

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my bad, pof = plentyoffish, its a dating site.

I don't even ask them for a phone number. Most of the time I try to setup a date within the first 3 emails. When she agrees, we then exchange phone numbers.

The reason why I try to skip phone-calls first is that its just another step. If you wait too long to meet with them the attraction dies very quickly. When you are with the actual person, you can read their body language whereas its really difficult to do that online.

However, if she says she wants to talk first (and has already given me her phone number), I normally don't respond back immediately. She knows at that point in time that I have read her message and she is at the point wondering 'why' I haven't responded back to her, building up suspense. I do this so I can think things through about what I am going to say and talk to her about and then push the meeting thing further. I also don't bother with messaging her anymore and go straight for the phone-call when I'm ready.

You have already seen a current (I hope) picture of the girl, read her profile enough to know if you are interested or not. So meeting her should be a no-brainer.

I have messaged girls on POF and within 6 hours had a meeting setup at local coffee shops or some other public place.

And another thing...I have asked countless girls what annoys them most about guys with the online dating thing and all of them have this one consensus: endless emails make them lose interest. It makes them think you have something to hide or that you are not real.

Best,

J-Dub

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J-Dub in DC

Its better to be the predator than the prey.

You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

Hey J-Dub

Wanted to try out your ideas first hand before I replied. I've turned up the aggression a notch and just go straight for setting up a date ASAP, even if they turn me down or say "whats the rush", I just say "whats the slow down".

Needless to say, I've got a date pretty much every night for the next two weeks, and the girls are texting me making plans.

So next problem, went on a couple dates so far, interaction was pretty good, I can sense as if the girl wants me to escalate to something more physical. Just not sure how to progress. Whipping out some kind of palm reading gimmick would seem very obvious and awkward. How do I escalate to some kind of touching, to turn it up a notch if we're just both sitting at a table across from each other?

Go out, have some stimulating conversation and make it feel really personal. Also, if you get up to go to the bathroom or anything, escalate a little kino-wise. If I get up on a first date, I'll put my hand on their arm as I pass by, but that's just one way to do it. From there it's easy to lead to a kiss.

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when I am out on a date with them I do the following:

1. Look them into their eyes until they turn away...this is a basic principal but its so potent.
2. FEEL their body language...this might sound crazy but you know the mood and how things are so you can either set it or sabatoge it.
3. Act as if she has something on her lip and then take your thumb and 'clean' it off..Look into her eyes as you do this..don't hesitate...if they say something, say "you have something right there" and go for it.
4. Towards the end of the date..just say these words... "I want to see you again"....and not a single word more...smile and say ..."good night"...

This has NEVER failed for me....

Best,

J-Dub

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J-Dub in DC

Its better to be the predator than the prey.

You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

Great post J-Dub, I think people really overlook the first two. It's amazing how incredibly powerful eye contact is, and also how easy it is to feel another person's energy via body language or even just nervousness etc.

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