ok so i was using JSmooth's 4-step method outlined in this forum. using direct method on this HB8, i got response immediately and have exchanged 5 email messages total, the last from her >1000 word email. in the last email i sent, i ended with asking her to text me and telling her i want to meet her, eventually.

in response, she says she is very new to this(true) and wants to first do IM a bit. she seems very nice, responds almost immediately, writes well and writes a lot, but it is mostly answering in details what i asked in my previous email along with some stuff she wants to talk about, but no questions about me at all.

i dont know if this is heading towards LJBF zone. my question is, should i continue building more rapport via IM or freeze her out for a couple of days before responding?

Your heading to the friend zone. If a girl doesn't ask you any questions about you, and only talks about her and other topics you don't have her interest. As far as what to do, you could freeze her out. Or you can walk away as I highly doubt she will ever agree to meet you seeing that besides not asking questions about you, she wants to go to IM, which means more time spent online and not talking in real life.

dude, thanks a lot for the insightful response, shall follow the advice you outlined.

thank you for the help, it worked! i froze her out a bit and did not take to IM. she just sent me her number with a nice email and hinting on a meetup this weekend and that she is excited about it.

i have a question though: she wants to know my full name - do you guys give out your full name before the meetup?

Actually i consider it very good when a girl begun to talk about herself.

Because ,take a look , most AFC talk about them self to much... and they get upset when girls reject them, they try to not upset girls,

same with the girls...

just let them talk about them self, about they problems they have, about their ex. who abused them , as much as they want

it's just fine... you earn a lot of power in this way ... if a girl likes you she will try to say something about herself , if she only talks like "what do you work?! what car do you have?! do you have a house?!" then she is still in the selective zone.. lol... it's like f.ing you in the eyes man , with this words "i choose, let me set you a price, lol"

TIP: Let them talk, but not fully listen to them , this is working like a neg... actually like a very big f. neg. It's just making them less important , make fun of their life,etc. Lissen 50%, and ignore the last 50% (anyway the last 50% will just be "bitch shield" opinions)


---Sorry for my bad english bro