Ok so I got a few msn but with some girls I can't get anything to talk about. At first there is always something but at the second time I have no idea!

Please give me some general topics I can talk about just to make her confortable. She answers well and not only with one word, but still she doesn't seems to engage the conversation.

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1) Life
2) Hobbies
3) Memories
4) Favorite Things to do.
5) Dreams
6) Goals
7) Sex
Tease her
9) Jokes
10) Tell funny stories
11) Tell interesting stories
12) DHV


Get outside your head even on instant messenger and just be open, go with the flow and say what's on your mind. Who cares what she thinks? If she doesn't like you because of who you are then you shouldn't want her anyways.

Best formula is to just be yourself at all times that way when you do attract women they like you for you.

I thought about talking about dreams and funny stories but I thought it will not be a good idea on msn. I think I am just overthinking.

I got some few IOI's from her. The big one is when I asked her about her age, she is 1year younger than me so I teased her about how young she is but I can deal with it, then she asked me my age and then she said that I am too old but she can deal with it too.

Anyway, when I saw that the conversation stopped for about 20min I just logged off without saying bye. Sometimes my msn crash (I told her) so I guess this time she will think that my msn had a bug again.

Also, I want to know if it's ok to be the one who start the conversation most of the time. I don't want to look like an AFC who will always start talking to her.

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I mean yea MSN Is retarded you should be number closing her and pushing to be sexual. You shouldn't even have time to be on MSN.

Nothing is AFC if you aren't AFC. That is hard for some people to get because they doubt themselves.

All I'm saying is do what you want and don't care so much if what you do "ruins" the relationship. It doesn't matter. If she just falls off the face of the earth you shouldn't even think about her again. That is the mindset I preach. I take that mindset even with my girlfriend. She might love you one day and the next you break up, big deal I sarge RIGHT AWAY.

I don't sit on my ass and sulk and think about what I need to do I just go and try to fclose, fclose, fclose, fclose.

If you doing anything else your lying to yourself and your not being true to being a man. Men want to fuck. That's it. Everything else is a lie.

I like how you think. I will not think about it, if it doesn't work, who cares, I can get more msn laters. Why I use msn? Because I am on a local "facebook" and it's really popular so I use it to meet new people. It's the first time I do Online game, I usually (and still) go out more often. It's not my main game.

Anyway thank you for the advices. At this moment I am doing pretty good, I already #closed one and I may go out with her on a date this week-end.

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Sorry for my english mistakes.