This girl messaged me a few days ago, and we've messaged back and forth a bit since. Her replies are generally short, maybe a joke or just a simple answer so I decided to catch her on chat and see if it went better. After a couple days she was finally on when I was so I started up a chat session... again answers were sometimes short, not volunteering much... so really not sure if she's just the non-talky type or uninterested.

Anyway, during conversation she mentions she doesn't have cable so she has to go out to catch hockey games, then says there's one on tonight. I took that as a hint:


(5:20:23 pm)Her: there's one today at 7

(5:21:16 pm)Me: hmm... need some company then?

(5:22:30 pm) Her: ehhh. I don't know

(5:22:43 pm)Her: I don't think I want to meet someone random at a bar

(5:23:10 pm)Her: and I know you're not totally random because we've met and talked on here, but still

(5:23:12 pm)Me: fair enough... but isn't that what bars are for?

Basically a bit more, she said she was just going to watch some netflix and then to have a good night.

So ok, no biggie... but unsure if she just wasn't comfortable enough YET or doesn't want to talk to me again?

Any thoughts?