Hey guys, got this girl off POF and she seemed really into me at first, but recently she hasn't been replying to my messages. I've got her MSN + phone number and it's been a few days since we've talked and I can feel her going cold. This set needs a defibrillator quick!

Do you guys know any good ways to re-open this set so I don't lose it? Thanks!

Sorry to derail off the topic so much, but why do you care about some internet girl who hasn't talked to you in two days? Seriously maybe you need a life? Why don't you set some goals and go achieve them. The sky is the limit.

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Maybe he's interested in pursuing this? Just because you wouldn't and it may not be the most "pua" like thing to do doesn't mean he's doing anything wrong by following this through.

I'm interested to see what people say on this matter as well.

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I think we need more details before we can provide any more advice... your post was kinda vauge

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When you say "messages" do you mean MSN, POF or voicemails? If you've left multiple voicemails, you've made yourself look creepy and blown it. If you just mean she hasn't replied on PoF, then she may just be busy. If she's ignoring you on MSN you've probably also blown it but not as badly. Does she say anything when you MSN message her?

hi AychQ, you have her phone number - assuming it's a mobile - so text her. Apparently the secret is to text her once very few days with short texts so you keep on her 'radar'. Make the texts fun, not needy and with NO pressure or hint to follow up. If she replies then build up the frequency and take it from there. I would do 3 texts over the next 2 weeks (a text every 3 or 4 days) If she doesn't respond then move on.
If you cannot send SMS then do the same thing via MSN. Be prepared to move on after a few tries.

@magnum45
I'm definitely not pining after this girl, I've already got a date set up with someone I like a little bit better this weekend; and she's not the only person I'm focusing on by any means. I just think it would be a shame to lose this gal because I've never been with a chick like her (tattoos, piercings, etc.)

@ManlySpirit & Onoma
Definitely haven't been leaving any voicemails, that has chump written all over it. And I don't talk to her over POF anymore, it's either just MSN or text. To be more specific, she was kinda distant in her last text and she didn't respond at all to my last attempt to open her over MSN. We haven't talked in a couple days, mostly because I didn't want to open again then have her ignore me a second time and completely shut myself out. Before now she seemed super happy to chat, and I got her to escalate into telling me she can have multiple orgasms and that she's had phone sex and hooked up with people she's met over the internet before.

@skypirate1965
Thanks for the advice!