so I msg'ed this really cute girl on POF who describes herself as "I am a hopeless romantic, one-man kind of woman. In my books, nice guys finish first."

I used the titanic opener. our conversation is reproduced below:

ME:
hey you look familiar. were you by any chance
on the titanic?
I swear I saw you cleaning tables after I finished
eating.

---------

HER:
What the **** is wrong with you?
Get a life and growa pair you homo

---------

ME:
woah that's ****ing rude, where are your manners missy? Is that how your mom taught you to talk to other people?

(at this point I had mentally discarded her but I figured I would write something back just to make her feel bad for her rude response. I didn't expect her to reply but she did)

---------

HER:

****ing right she did. Too bad you didn't go down with the Titanic. Who's****did you suck to get out of that one?

----------


I have never seem a girl this rude. while some part of me is saying forget about her, another part of me wonders how I can turn this conversation around. My hunch is that she is a nice girl. Any advice?

thanks!

Why bother? Nice girls tend to not talk like that nor respond back like that. For kicks you could tell her she may do better dating girls.

LOL... I'd just f*ck with her for the sake of f*cking with her. Her responses are too ridiculous to be real. And if they are real, she's a sociopath, so who cares?

I'd say something like, "Your grandfather!! It was your grandfather's sperm that went down my throat instead of creating a decent parental unit to give birth to your ass... I'm sorry that I digested the best of your dad's family! I didn't know!!"

Go for broke, man

_________________
Live Your Truth.

Royalty, that was very funny ...it's not often I LOL.

For the OP don't waste your energy on her

Agreed.

thanks guys. I hope she goes to get some help.

IMO that opener is garbage.

Thats how I feel, there are way better online openers! All you need to do is to read her profile and ask her something about that, or just say hi or whatever! Dont use that line!

As for the convo, I'd probably wouldnt reply to what she said and send a new message saying "how was ur day filthy mouth? how many times did u say "Cock" today?"
U never know, she might reply and eventually message each other regulary and start making the whole thing a joke and become friends. I like this chick!
I dont know, I like stirring shit!

If a girl is a bitch she just get hotter in my eyes. I agree with shahnam if you want to have a shot at f***close but fucking with her could also be fun.

Exactly, plus I rather my gf be a bitch to stranger guys than a simple, polite and naive girl! Getting a bitchy girl is -no offense to women- petting a Tiger ! Its takes ur social value higher and makes guys who approach ur gf, envy ya!

truth!

I think you're confusing Envy with Pity. To be frank men think other men hanging with 'bitches' are just as bad. It's your choice if you want to hang around fucked-up people. A man is judged by the company he keeps.

Agreed, personally when I see some dude with a very attractive woman who is also very bitchy I just feel bad for em. Its like watching a child eat ice cream with bits of glass in it.

I love quote in quote in quote :p
Ok here is the deal, Blond might turn u on, but maybe they r not attractive to another man, everyone has their own taste, however, you need to realize there are no "bitchy"girls! The "bitchiest" girl who tells you to fuck off, meets some other guy whom she falls for and would love with passion! The girl who tells you "you have no chance with me!" is not a "bitch" as that girl would open her legs for her boyfriend and yell "fuck me harder!"!
I hope you get my point!
A girl could "act bitchy" and that's for many reasons, but the most common ones are:

*She had a bad day! (as we all do)
*She's noticed why you have approached her and she is not interested and does not have enough patience to deal with you
* - most important one- she has a bitch shield which she uses to shut down hundreds of pervert guys whom she meets EVERYDAY!
Just approach the girl you find bitchy, in day time, in the right manner and you will see how different she is!
That is why the game has developed! To understand what "bitch shield" is, Why It exists and so on.... and to approach the right way to avoid it! If you have not understood this yet I don't know what are you doing here.
The girl mentioned in this thread got her bitch shield high cause the guy started his conversation with a lame pick-up line which included unnecessary insult which is no way funny or amusing! So give her some credit for standing up for herself! The sad thing is, mostly when a girl stands up to a guy to protect herself and her pride, the guys call her "bitch"!
If you see a girl who acts bitchy towards you and you realize there are some guys in her group which she is comfortable around, it does not bring down their social value, it reminds you, "your game sucks!" and go home and think about the mistakes you made while approaching instead of quickly judging her and her friends!

1 of three things have happened

1) your a weird guy off the internet and shes creeped out

2) Your game is slipping

3) shes had a bad day and will be apologizing tomorro

All very well that *some* women/girls have the bitch shield and are actually nice people underneath. I think you've swallowed the myth that all females are NICE and SWEET and if you only approach them correctly they will be yours. Any failure is YOUR fault and has NOTHING to do with your 'target'. It's utter bullshit. Accept this - *some* girls/women ARE bitches. It is NOT a shield and you're seeing their true personality. It is NOTHING to do with how they are approached. Some females are bottomless pits of unhappiness and bitterness. Anyone who's had a bad LTR will vouch for this. There is NOTHING you can do for those types other than identify and avoid.