I used to be an over thinker in the beginning of game. Got pretty good results most of the time but It was to much mental work to put on a mask to talk to a girl. So then I became very impulsive with girls and kind of didn't give a s***. So I can still get girls to like me but I became the guy who physically escalates maybe a bit aggressive. (I stop if the girl tells me to stop) but most of the time they don't and talk about it being like "coming on to strong" with their friends. But to my question.

When I text girls that I am sexually attracted to, I know this isn't really playing hard to get but I risk everything with a sexual or super sexual remark and get like a rush of excitement to see their reply from it. It turned into a habit and I do it a little to often with girls I text (when I do) because I feel it gets boring if I don't and I want that escalated part & that sexual rush feeling I get from being so direct with my sexual appeals/intentions to them. I am normally labeled by the girls the "Weird, funny, cool, tall guy" (no that does not correlate to Slenderman xD or at least I don't think it does.) Sometimes though, I do get girls wanting to f*** me from that sexting. But I normally do it maybe a little too much with them. (High sexual drive here lol)

So when should I stop it before it gets to much? I am thinking I should initiate a sexual conversation, then pull back or use push/pull and get her to start chasing me. If she is complying to sexual conversation that is. And then if she doesn't I'll use maybe a little neg like "So you're that average good girl huh? " I don't think any girl would want to be called average. So then I think that would make her want to try and stand out to me right? after I say that I would expect her to try and qualify to me with something like "I'm not an average girl!" and then begins what I think the chasing. Because after she says that I would whip out my rule book and standards and hit her with me playing hard to get and DHV'ing. Is that a good tactic?

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imo, youre still overthinking.

be yourself, have some fun and get laid. not everything needs to be a "push pull", double neg with a backflip at the end.

if you cone uo with a good line keep it in your repertoire to use later. but for the most part being c/f and just talking to women works a lot of the time when texting.

Agree with above - but from a woman's POV, an overly sexual comment at the wrong time, or too soon, is a dead giveaway that you're playing a game... and that you're going to likely push for sex too soon and above all else. Some girls are up for this, but it will turn most off right away. Save that kind of stuff for when you meet and have some chemistry or body language to support it.

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