Hey guys, so i'm quite new at this but am learning quick.

so have been sarging this girl, from facebook, onto msn and now have her number as she suggested we meet for a drink (she beat me to it lol) so i said i'll send her a text to let her know when im free.

we as it is now xmas and shes not 18 til the weekend so earliest meet for a drink is monday so she can actually get in a bar lol. do i wait a couple of days to txt suggesting we meet monday/tuesday? or should i text tomorrow to just wish a happy xmas - or should i put more to the happy xmas text?

what would you do? any suggestions?

Good job so far! Definitely send her a text message wishing her a Merry Christmas. Feel free to add a little more in there. I might send her something tomorrow like, "Merry Christmas, hope you're having a great day. What'd you get this year?"

That way it gives you too a little bit of chit chat without going into a bunch of text messages, and it puts you back in her mind.

Happy Holidays Buddy!

Jon

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cheers dude

its put me in a really good mood. which will help me tonight when i go down the pub and work on my night game

i was thinking about the whole asking what she got. except she's told me already as she knows what shes getting haha

so had a couple of text exchanges around midday today with her. generally just merry xmas messages and her telling me she got an ipod touch. and i replied with 'thats great ...blah blah, im just starting on the wine'. a little later i get a reply with her just telling me its now not working and shes not impressed. nothing really to respond to so thats where i left it for today.

heres what im now not sure of....what im not sure of now is about arranging the meet. she's the one that suggested we meet soon so i was thinking of texting tomorrow to say im free monday or tuesday and we should meet. should i not mention that in the first text, or is it ok as she seemed eager to meet? or do i need to let a couple of general txts go back and forth before suggesting the meet?