so i decided to give online sarging a go as i might as well when im at home on facebook.
After some tips and advice. Should i be direct straight away or keep it to general friendly chit chat first to build comfort and rapport?
i want to build attraction as soon as possible, but not sure the best way to do this. as girls can be a bit more on the defensive online to avoid the creeps.
as an example:
initial opener states a long the lines of "you look interesting so i had to say hi"
and the response is "aww, thanks for taking the time to say hi

how r u?"
how should this be responded too. just answering her Q is gonna lead to boring conversation (but may build comfort). But i want a better reply, thats gonna get more interesting convo and start building attraction.
help with this one would be greatly appreciated

thanks.