fuck,fuck,fuck!! I got baited into arguing with a bitchy target.I violated a basic rule of the fraternity which is to not argue in set. The witch baited me into violating so she can disqualify me. I think Love Drop(the PUA) wrote about these things[Violation Theory by Love Drop] where he states that in set,the target may bait you into violating(arguing,etc.) so she can shut you down without feelin bad about it.

I feel F'd up 'cause I should be over this already(arguing in set).

Ok,if yall have been following my past 3 posts,I'd wrote about an HB8-a librarian who I was sarging & gaming. The previous 2 meets(at the library)went very well[I didn't # close since I knew where she works and can see her daily].

Buy today now went like this
HB8:"I want u to hear some new songs I'd downloaded".

Me:Only if u got good taste-ok lets go.

HB8:[20 min. later an external interrupt happens-a male friend of hers]"Ok,I don't want to talk to u anymore"

Me:Blah,blah(I kept talking)

HB8:Is that how u act with your other girls[attitudishly of course]?

Me:Yes,its a natural thing to keep talking when a female wants me to stop.

HB8:"Well u talk too much,so shut up"
[minutes later]
Me:U know whats the prob' with girls like U,yall want to dominate and muzzle guys like little bitches,but Im not the one.

HB8:Im not talking to U. Didnt I say that Im done with u like 15 min. ago?

Me:U are a lunatic and confused!!

It went on for like 20 more minutes with harsher words on both sides.
Guys,did I go too far?[/list]

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Yeah, I think you went too far with this. Since you read good things from LoveDrop and others here is one to consider. In LoveDrop/Mystery's book Revelation they talk about the "Zen of Cool" its the idea that little stuff doesnt effect you and stuff just rolls off you. There is no point in loosing our cool whether in set or online.

Oh well, we live & learn!

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Good advice JSmooth. Its funny how after a blow up in set or what not,you then think on it later and say,"Damn,all I had to do was just...play it cool.

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