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Please don't copy word for word, k?
I think the best idea was manipulating the interests to spell ARE YOU FUN if you read top to bottom. I'm sure some of you guys could get real creative with that. One woman spent 2 days trying to find my secret question. She spent her lunch hour today looking until she found it, that was cool. She even said she printed it out to take to work.
The other idea I had was to write some crazy Star Trek type riff where you pickup a female on sensors and notice her shields are up. I haven't fleshed it out because this is working well.
I had pro pix taken and am holding back 3 for women I like. It was $200 bucks but easily worth it.
Anyway, I've gotten quite a few first contacts off of the profile. Enough that I don't message many women.
I think the best template for getting to the meeting is to swap a few messages and show her you're funny and cool, get her on the phone and show her you're funny and cool and see if she is (spread this over 2-3 calls), then meet.
Meets can be real awkward if you don't know much about them so I think a few calls is real helpful to make the meet go well.
I entice them to meet with cupcakes. I tell them I know a place that makes awesome cupcakes and then get them to meet there. I open with Mystery's guess a number from 1-4 thing to see who pays (It's like $1 a cupcake). I make her put her hands palm up on the table then I take her hands to "pass the energy". That way we touch and I take the dominant hand position.
CHAT