Ok fellas,
maintaing the frame is one of those things you ALWAYS have to do
if you wanna come across as consistent and alpha
and if you don't wanna end up kissing her feet and buying her drinks
This includes internet chat.

I put an example of a SPAM convo between me and a good girl friend of mine below:



[19:35:29] Jamila: Hahaha.
[19:37:24] Kaj: who the hell r u?
[19:41:17] Jamila: Ouch.
[19:41:22] Jamila: That hurt my feelings/
[19:41:33] Jamila: This is Jamila bitch.
[19:42:19] Kaj: can i call u jamila instead of jamila bitch?
[19:42:28] Kaj
[19:42:28] Jamila: Hahhah.
[19:43:12] Jamila: ;]]
[19:44:26] Jamila: I would love love love to call you right now.
[19:44:31] Jamila: But I look a tad bit HORRIBLE.
[19:45:36] Kaj: ok nothing new
[19:45:39] Jamila: Oi.
[19:45:42] Jamila: I'll kill you.
[19:45:43] Jamila: :]]
[19:45:56] Kaj: :*
[19:46:27] Jamila: Bleehhh.
[19:46:43] Kaj: fuck that icon is retarded
[19:46:48] Jamila: Hahahahaha.
[19:46:49] Jamila: Yes.
[19:46:51] Jamila: Yes it is. ;]]
[19:47:16] Kaj: you'll just have to give me a real one later
[19:47:32] Jamila: Nahhh.
[19:47:37] Jamila: You'd have to work for it.
[19:47:40] Jamila: I don't give those out for free.
[19:47:47] Kaj: u gonna have to pay me to do that
[19:48:01] Kaj: otherwise hands of the merchandise
[19:48:11] Jamila: Ooooh you're a riot.
[19:52:34] Jamila: Brb.
[20:00:41] Jamila: Ok.
[20:00:46] Jamila: I'm bored. SPAM with me.
[20:02:55] Kaj: i have to do maths for tmrw, talk to you later
[20:03:13] Jamila: ... Fine. :]]

Feel free to post good examples of maintaining the frame in your convos in the topic .