Yo lemme post a typical FB conversation with me. This girl happens to be in another country but whatever. Im tryin to escalate. Where do I do it?

Alex
mili! ca va?

Mili
haha hey
ça va bien!
what about you?!

7:09pmAlex
i am doing excellent, just sitting here in davis chilling off of some study aids
where are you now in th world may i ask

7:09pmMili
in argentina
its 12am here already hehe

7:09pmAlex
niiice...7 PM in davis :P
partying?

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7:13pmAlex
got you
coming back to the states soon?

7:13pmMili
hmm not in my plans

7:13pmAle
i want to go abroad..maybe ill run across u in some strange country

7:13pmMili
I might next year around september
but its not for sure
and Ive been there a few times since I moved back cause my oldest bro lives over there

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hey i feel like since its so many years later i can tell u this story kind of funny
i happened to talk to krisna freshman year or something
hes like "remember that girl mili? shes hella hot now i saw her at xxx"

7:32pmMili
haha ohhmy
at whaat?

7:33pmAlex
i mena

7:33pmMili
oh he said that freshman year!

7:33pmAlex
not at like a porn shop
but at some random place
yeah maybe it was freshman year


7:35pmMili
ooo i wanna see people after so long haha I moved like 6 years ago, crazy

7:40pmAlex
hey do i speak with an accen
i hear it sometimes from random ppl i play chess with online i have a californian drawl
...typed

7:40pmMili
well, you are californian!
I used to speak with that accent..now, I'm like SO hispanic when I talk haha its so funny
but I keep my californian ways hehe



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so where the hell do i go

I really wouldn't advise attempting a long distance relationship. But if you're keen to sharpen your chatting online skills then go for it.

Other than the porn shop line I didn't see anything sexual mentioned. Start with little things, have a few ambiguous comments, a few innuendos. Test the water see if she responds. If she doesn't try different things. If you pick up (pun intended) no sense that she is getting it, getting the sexual stuff then move on. Otherwise you'll just be a chat buddy a cyber friend and nothing else. The LetsJustBeFriends zone is shit in real life but far worse online.