heheyy this is keith!!
anyway i wanted to thank you for reading all our marathon length messages constantly with a lot of patience. i mean u do this literally everyday! thank you dude!
anyway i have been great since the last time u gave me advice. i have been pulling girls numbers but never getting to meet them! frustrating. so i gave up and came back!
this is a convo however is with a girl whom i hit off very nicely but somewhere along the line..., we didnt hook up. now i want to get to know her better and it is impossible to do so! pls tell me how to get a better responce from her....

Keith
heheyy

10:55pmSami
hey hey hey
how are you?

10:56pmKeith
sami!!!
i am great
fucking hottest thing i heard from all day!
tell me
how did halloween go for u?

10:58pmSami
good! and you

10:58pmKeith
gee! i guess u didnt have a gd time at all

10:58pmSami
what were yo?

10:58pmKeith
east lansing!
i know! long story...

10:59pmSami
okay?

11:00pmKeith
well i decided i was going to go to a friends party....
i dont know of i should tell u
dont want u to think as if i am a whore

11:00pmSami
tell me!
hha

11:01pmKeith
u cannot tell anyone. i am the good one
pinky swear?

11:01pmSami
kk who?
yes]

11:02pmKeith
ok. well i went to this party.., got relatively drunk
and i met this adorable girl ever.

11:02pmSami
okay whoo
do i know her

11:03pmKeith
no. she is from Iowa...
junior at msu.

11:03pmSami
oh got cha

11:03pmKeith
and i think is 22

11:03pmSami
good for you
dang she is old

11:03pmKeith
i know!
and then we went back to her dorm and did it!
it wwas amazing!
well i am not going to go any further

11:05pmSami
you reall ycant go any further!
haha

11:05pmKeith
we did it but...i realized her roommate was sleeping!
but did it anyway
and left b4 she woke up!

11:05pmSami
oh my word
you are sneaky

11:06pmKeith
now i feel like i made a huge mistake!
i didnt even know her that well!
and i feel like a slut!

11:07pmSami
well you can do that once in a great while
maybe

11:07pmKeith
other guys might think that this is the life...but i feel soo guilty

11:07pmSami
well tahts good of oyu
your normal

11:07pmKeith
haha thank you
how abt u? had any crazy college experiences lately?

11:08pmSami
not anything like that sorry

11:08pmKeith
u dirty freak! i didnt mean like that!
11:10pmKeith
i was just checking out ur picks
hows bball going?
dang u look sexy in that white jersey..
stinky maybe but hot as hell

11:13pmKeith
whatever
ttyl


that was when i was like wtf and went to get a pizza.
this happened b4 and i gt frustrated too. but i really like her.

You made a big mistake but randomly bragging about hooking up with the other girl. major turn-off...comes off as try hard like you're trying to show her that you're sexworthy. Then when you say that you regret doing it, that hurts you even more.

If girls know that you can have other girls, that's a good thing. But you telling them that you have other girls is an absolutely terrible decision.

When you show remorse for it, that shows weakness.

The whole situation doesn't look completely bright to me. First off you're carrying the conversation completely and she's showing little interest by responding with very short messages. When she doesn't answer for a minute, you show anxiousness and message her more. Give her time to respond.

At the end when she stops answering, you are trying too hard by bringing up the sexy basketball pics, etc...by then you've already blew yourself out of the conversation.

No worries tho bud, plenty of girls out there. Just be yourself, enjoy the interactions, and don't try to impress them or deliberately demonstrate value...especially when it involves you being with other girls, it just doesn't work.

Stay up and keep pimpin my man.