I've been trying out some online game for the past week and ive actally gotten some good responses... i used a neg as an opeaner to get theyre attention.. heres one of my conversations..

me: are you wearing a wig or is that your real hair?

HB: Is that a real question? i hope not...

me: Oh it is a real question! I have a friend in Australia who looks exactly like you, but shes got a different hair color lol. I was just super syked to find her on facebook, but you totally disappointed me by being the wrong girl LOL.

HB: oh okay no prob. no my hair is real. i have some with it rly long and its just one extension but i dont anymore.

me:cool, i dont think girls should hide they're true selves under extentions. Anyway, i cant get past the fact about how much you look like my friend. Its kinda scary.. You totally reminded me of all the fun that we used to have back in Australia. We went surfing, rock climbing and all the crazy stuff that the aussies do. lol.

can anyone help me out... is this girl already qualifying herself to me? where should i take this??

P.S: im pretty new at this pickup deal.. I just started out doing some cold approaches and some online game..

TexasFan360,

I would say any of her responses are qualifying to you just yet. Her qualifying to you would be like her listing qualities about herself to prove that she's worthy of you. No, she is not qualifying as of yet.

With online game I highly recommend that people spend time in field before they really persue this because you'll need those lessons learned from being face to face to be good online. At this point your opener as worked and run its course. You need to switch to a new thread, preferrably something where you are DHVing yourself a little more. A good story usually does the trick for me. Then always be sure to ask her a question to keep the conversation flowing.

So far so good!

~Jon