There is a lot of advice and confusion over the time frame used when replying to girls over text and IM. I suppose this would be more applicable to text game but I'm evisioning BlackBerry messenger and other phone based ims. This however can just as easily be applied to other forms of im.

For me I have found that putting a mathematical formula on the length of time you need go wait before replying to a girl never works as too many real life variables get in the way.

So I would suggest when replying to any form of message as a general rule keep it random.

However there is something called momentum which can be a very powerful tool.

Momentum is where both parties are so enjoying and are getting so excited by the conversation that both will reply to the others message immediately.

To judge whether you have reached the momentum point is a hard thing. To get there keep the flirty banter going but each response inject a tiny amount of sexuality more than the last message. You will notice if you're doing it correctly that the girl is responding super quick with similarly sexual flirtation.

Now at this point you can either go on, at the risk of being boring towards the end or do a takeaway (my preferred method) both have risks but in general keep going for the less attractive girls and takeaway for the super hotties. Doing this formula with multiple takeaways over a stretch of time is a good way of keeping up attraction and interest until you get to see her again.

Hope this helps!

Harem x

I think timing/frequency of calls, texts, emails is very important. I'm doing online sarging and I've recently lined up around 10 potential dates. As I cannot physically see more than 2 or 3 an evening there has been lots of emails and texts going back and forward trying to arrange schedules.

My own opinion is that if you leave contact for more that 3 or 4 days the woman/girl will go cold and lose interest.