Havn't talked to this girl since last semester. Same class last year and 2 days ago she strangely wrote on my wall. goes like this. start from the bottom up.


Her: hahaha well i happen to agree that the phillies phans are phucking phaggots. so how about thatttttt haha. umm i havent been up to too much! been really hectic with school and work. how are you doinggg?
Yesterday at 5:51pm · Comment · Like

Me: haha i just call it like I see it. so what have you been up to, besides wasting away, away from you lol.
Yesterday at 12:58pm · Comment · Like


Her: HAHAHAHAHAHA you wish!
Yesterday at 9:16am · Comment · Like

Me: Yea me2. especially you giving me the eyes from across the room every class lol
Yesterday at 2:55am · Comment · Like

Her: I MISS ITALIAN CLASS
October 20 at 8:23pm · Comment · Like

Now, The "I haven't been up to much....been really hectic" is so plain and bland how could I set up a hoop for her to jump through to tell me more before i start SPAM all the fun that I have been up to this summer.

"Dodging bullets, thumb wrestling, saving the world. Same old same old lol.
Tell me about your's, I bet my summer could beat your summer "
Then you can tell her all about your amazing summer.

Depending on her response, you want to get off fluff talk and into some deeper stuff.
Then suggest a meetup with "hey, me and a couple of friends are doing [blah], you should totally come along"

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good stuff thanks, here what she said. now do i tell her about it or is that me jumping through a hoop?

ME: well you know, the usual stuff, dodging bullets, thumb wrestling, saving the word lol .

we havent talked since we gave del prete the starbucks card, how was your summer? if it's about as interesting as what you've been up to recently than i can say that my summer beat yours up lol.

HER: hahahaha hmm summer was good! went down the shore a bunch of times, i miss it lol this weather is such a tease because its started to get warm but i remember last halloween was warm too. i didnt do much this summer hahaha so yes your summer probably beat mine up... tell me about it
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dude you're overthinking this. Hoops are there so you can avoid being the dancing monkey for her, and so that she can feel like she has earned your interest. Just tell her about your summer.

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I'm a ninja-fighter.

your right, i should just go wit it. i just told her about my summer. should have set up an opportunity for a day 2 or continue with fluff. at what point should the fluff talk stop and you go for the day 2.

this is what i got

ME: ok (HB), I'll "tell you about it" lol.

well like you went dts early like mayish-june. in july was in florida for two weeks, sarasota and st. augustine. so nice but really really hot. i've been bartending for almost a year now so I can't ever say i hate going to work lol. and volunteer at the boys n girls club and coach football for 5th and 6th graders. that is still going on btw, we are 3-3 and have 2 more games left. all in all fulfilling summer lol.

HER: haha thats awesome! a full paragraph of your summer! 3-3 thats really good!!! i want to go somewhere fun for christmas break but i am definitely just going to sit home and work. seriously, ive never been anywhere.. i need to start spontaneously traveling.

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