Ok i am on facebook and post a post
can someone please explain what the shit happens next

MY POST : hmm dont want too work anyone wanna go watch a horror film tonight?

hb: I really want to watch halloween 2 but im going to get so scared loll

me: thats the fun of it

hb: loll its not fun getting scared !

me: awww dnt worry ill protect u from the evil movie screen X)

hb: Lolll yayy

me: lol so you down then?

hb: Errrm naaa tonight im staying in maybe during the weekend or next week x



what the fuck happened at the end ??? why on gods earth did she even bother too comment in the first place

you went in for the kill too early.

u had a good playing momentum going,

u didnt talk to her enough, no neg there either.

i would hae said something like.

your scared of a six foot deranged serial killer what are you a girl or something.

teasing her on being a girl is always good, she generally responds with saying yes i am hadnt u noticed. (she is then qualifying herself to you)

im a newbie but hope it helps

Maybe she is just busy?

still confusing

Chicks do this all the time she is like a fisherman coaxing the fish and throwing back small fish into the water. She could also have just been bored

Yeah...I think you went for it too early, you should've had a little more rapport going, you could make up a story about a friend who pissed/crapped himself or something...get the laughs going, THEN suggested the idea of her coming over to watch a movie. (you asked her)


man: you wanna come?
(this suggests you want her to decide for you)
hb: uh...welll. nah, im tired. maybe next time.

man: although i didnt really want to watch a movie with a wussy, you can prove yourself to me come watch a couple movies with me, don't worry, if you get too scared, you can find an excuse to hold my hand.
hb: psh! im not scared!

remember all the other girls on ur list are reading this go down too lol.. but then again chicks seem to be attracted to guys talkin to other chicks lol

Social proof at it's best...or worst

suddenly i feel like i should have done this through instant messaging than the "fail" that is facebook

It really doesn't matter. You didn't do too bad of a job, you may have gone in a little early, oh well, some girls would have agreed to go, this one didn't. Don't worry about it

yeah cheers everybody ill definatly remember the advice

Bro! didn't you read what she said? her response was not tonight and not fuck off you creep, that is a win in my books. So chill the fuck out and tell her Saturday is fine. Just out of interest what time was this at? Do you know how long girls take to get ready for a date?

it was only around 4pm dude