posted from another thread:

I don't know. I'm starting to think online is indeed a waste of time. seems like there's nothing you can do or say anymore to distinguish yourself, create strong attraction, and get that number.

My success rate has plummeted for no apparent reason these last few months. it's getting harder and harder to get numbers. and I've spent a while pondering why this must be. but I can't figure it out. there seems to be no solution this time. It's gotten so bad that I'm thinking about scrapping the whole online game unless I hear a great idea from someone. and I mean a great idea.

I'm out of creativity as far as MySpace sarging goes.

Am I the only one at a total loss right now? And I mean am I the only one who was once relatively successful at online sarging, only to run into a long term, total loss for no apparent reason?

you say your results have recently gone down. That makes me suspect you have saturated your area's supply of eligible women, correct? Well there's nothing you can do about that other than reopen women or do what you're supposed to be doing anyway; treating online game as a supplement to real-life game.
NOTHING is going to beat going in field and actually running game. Online game isn't going to give you the lifestyle that attracts beautiful women either. You have to develop the whole package (hobbies/career/etc). That's what's going to get you women. If you start to truely live an attractive lifestyle then taking pictures of yourself will improve your online game.
Now I know there are certain circumstances that may prevent you from real-life sarging (working the nightshift, etc.), then you make due with what you can (online game), but don't get your hopes up. Online game is tough as is, I find it takes a certain kind of flirty girl to actually be successful online, this reduces the number of potential partners right off the bat.

in short, you shouldn't be disappointed by your results online because your expectations shouldn't be high in the first place.

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online action is strange bt sucessful for me,

the first message i send, i put very little effort into. yu can spend hours reviewing her profile to be witty and kooky, bt if she doesnt want to msg yu bk - an amazing message will probs not b a saviour.
upon her response is when yu let the charm flow.
im not online all the time - i will go on once a day for 20 minutes and reply to all messages. this is so they dont get freaked out by instant responses i guess.

i had a good myspace full close the other day, met a girl at 6 o clock - she came back to mine, we watched 4 episodes of friends and then had sex. by 9 o clock i had to ask her to leave cause i was going out with mates lol. (yeah i didnt last very long but nevermind! - she still wants to see me again this week)

iv met up with about 20 girls off myspace over the last 3 - 4 years, and i would say iv kissed at least 15 of them. with about 5 or so full closes.

anything yu want to ask i will be sure to give any opinions i have however, i dont know why my technique works. its just natural.

best of luck guyss x

Try www.tagged.com - there are quite a few fakes and cam girls on there, but some of the girls on there are gorgeous. It also seems really easy to game them on there, I met two of my ex's off of there. They actually opened me, and I hardly even had to put any effort in, I just played hard to get a little bit and went cocky funny on them and they invited me out. It was really easy.

Online gaming is alot of effort and sometimes I feel I could be making better use off my time.

Lately I have just been sending out friend requests to the hottest girls. A lot of them have accepted but I just can't be arsed chatting to them. I get bored too quickly.

Just on the weekend I recognised a girl who I met online. I went up to her and she recognised me. She was hot but really strange, and her body language was a major turn off. She was really hard to talk to as well and seemed plain negative about everything. I ended up not even saying bye and just walked off to game some other chicks. =)

Online..... I like it, it does work, but it's a beat around the bush approach to pickup.

the hottest girls i've slept with without a doubt were all from online, 1st dates. so i can't say it's a waste of time. yes, it feels pointless sometimes, but it's a worthwhile auxiliary tool if you're in a difficult geographical area or your approach game in real life isn't up to snuff (both could be said of me). i use it as practice

Thanks everyone. I'll ponder each of these replies.

any luck mate?

Get on plenty of fish, lots of opportunity there. I've gained valuable friends and had plenty of sex/text/C&F email experience with it.

i was thinking that as you get older, so does your target crowd, which than women dont take online as serious much.. when i was 19-22 i was meeting alot of chicks from myspace.. now im 25 and hardly no one replies.

MySpace is for the most part for the younger crowd. You may have better luck with Facebook as it is the more mature social network site.

I would say the hottest girls just don't use dating websites.. they don't have to.
I've been checking out profiles on my local dating site. I did a search for ages
of 20 to 26, profiles with photos and got 174 hits. Only one of them was about
HB9. I'm quite picky but anyway, i'm saying dating websites are a waste of time.
For me atleast.

MySpace/Facebook/MSN/Hyves and the likes all those forms of Online Sarging are an waste of time, if you want my opinion. You will never see her real feelings through a MS/FB/MSN Message.

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It's unpredictable! don't let your results get to you, In my opinion it isn't a waste of time but more of a side-hobby which you use to find the most attractive girls in your area. I usually have a hard time finding 8's and 9's in my area who are single, so this can speed up the process, but it doesn't mean they will always want to meet up.

Remember if you focus on real life game, when you finally meet them you will have the skills on tap to take it to the next level. Also spending too much time online will come across as "I don't have a life and I'm on MySpace every day!" so try to keep it to once or twice a week for the best results.