ok so i added a girl i knew years ago. she messaged me the other day so i was gonna write her back but she was online just now so i spoke to her in person.

think i ballsed up. didnt wanna start talkin just yet. profile is crap and still trying to go through the forums.

here is the convo

Jon

hiya love. how u doin
9:59pmRosie

very well thanks you?
10:00pmJon

ye im really good. was just about to message u.

then saw u online

:)
10:01pmRosie

going in a min tho..
10:01pmJon

so what u been up to in the 5 yearsi havnt seen u

no worries
10:01pmRosie

send me a messgae, tell me what you upto to, cant chat now
10:01pmJon

no worries. nice 2 SPK AGAIN
10:02pmRosie

yep


ok is this salvagible. or should i just talk like i would an old male friend then move on??????

in the bitter facebook methods i use, i would not reply to her
wait to her to reply to yu.... or, chat to her if yu are both online on facebook chat.
if yu leave her a message she is in control,
from the convo yu described, showing interest n jus msging may b a bad idea, so see how yu get on with this routine. if yu havent heard of her in a week, by all means message her - but try and make her make the effort, she has to prove her worth to talk to yu, not the other way around.
good luck mate