Alright back in May I met a girl on plentyoffishDOTcom and she had messaged me saying I'm cute and I ended up getting her email/phone #.. A little time went on and I moved to quick in trying to meet up so I had it where I would text her and she would respond sometimes she wouldn't.. So I charged it to the game and left it at that. Well last Sunday I was deleting old numbers out of my cell and ended up sending her a text just to see what would happen.. She texted me back right away and we ended up texting for a while and then talking on the phone for about half an hour.. On Monday We texted for a while but when I called her it was already too late and she had fell asleep..Wed we text a little bit but ended up talking for an hour and a half.. Now the thing is though she never text me or calls me on her own ( in the back of my mind I know that's not good) I'm always the one to start it off but when I do she texts back ASAP and calls ASAP when I tell her to and I get a good vibe off of it... SO Am I wasting my time because she does start off the communication and if I keep going like this how long before I try to set up a meeting again before I end up as a chat buddy or so I dont move too soon to the point where I have a her flake out?? THANKS EVERYBODY[/b]

I say if she's talking to you, it's on.
Some girls have retarded rules like they never fuck on the first date, or never stay on hold for a guy. She may have one where she never initiates. But if she's responding well who gives a fuck. You should definitely be setting up a meet if she's on the phone with you for that long, and replies to your texts.
Quick tip, don't stay on the phone for more than 20 mins or so. You need to demonstrate that you have a busy and fun life, you have better things to do than just talk on the phone all day. Always be the one ending the conversation because 'I have to go'.

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I'm a ninja-fighter.

I dated a girl once like that who had the "no initiation" rule, at times it did annoy me but she really did like me and we had a relationship for about a year even after I moved to a new state. Don't get discouraged... The 20 minute limit sounds good.

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The New Kid

i agree totally if she is replying and talking to your for that long its all good, go for the meet mate only way you will really know.

I met a girl a while back who never did initiate txts but always did reply. It's surefire sign of a girl who wants/expects/needs you to "lead". If you do meet her the same will most likely be true then too.

It's all very true, I'm in a situation with a girl of the same exact caliber and am literally in the process of setting up a meet. From here on out it's all about not seeming desperate, but showing at least some interest. O and I just remembered, TWICE I had a good convo going with her thru text, lots of it sexual and I stopped texting in the middle of it... Drove her crazy and all she could do was text me again and break her sacred rule! Love that shit!

Good Luck







-C