Whether online or real life I can get out of an afc mindset as long as it's a girl new to me. But let's say I run into someone from my afc days. For some reason I revert back to the afc ways with them. It's like I'm 15 again or something and clueless. How do you snap out of that without seeming like your personality has change drastically? Any help or tips would be appreciated.

sounds like trapped emotions in the subconscious that manifest bypassing your concious mind. The subconscious can be brutal like that.

I have no idea how to directly affect what's in the subconscious. Only indirectly by having positive thinking seep in and override it.

but Is it really a problem if your personality changes drastically (for the better)?.

I've noticed when women form a neutral opinion about me and then I do something that's completely unexpected it creates massive attraction. I'm not exactly sure why but it's seems to be a natural mechanism in the brain. but It's kind of natural for me to appear like an afc initially.

I went on a date with a girl Id met over 2 years ago, and I wasnt a complete AFC back then, but not as good as i am now, but anyways I just needed to see alittle quick success with some material I used, then my confidence went way up and I felt awesome and incontrol, like I was the man. Try it, just run a simple routine on them, once you feel it works, then you become the 'yourself' you wanna be straight away.

Think I used the 5 lies game, then once she ate that up I just relaxed and became the man. i think you just need to realise that she's exactly the same as any other woman, and the same rountines/tatics will work on them. Good luck man, hope this helps.