Okay I met this girl through a friend over the weekend. We chatted quite a bit and gone really well. Anyway I added her on facebook and a few minutes after she had accepted, she started talking to me on the facebook chat.
I noticed however, that this girl is currently in a relationship.
However, I asked her for her msn address ( I said the chat box was too small !). Anway she gives me her address and says "I don't use it much but I'll go on there for you because I'm a great mate"...

Is this cast-iron friends-zone or is she giving me iois, i cant really tell. Any ideas guys ?

do u talk to her on phone ?? if introduced from friend you should be trying get a date not strictly talk to her online

now that you have the IM you need to build comfort and rapport and then go for the number.

I think her willing to go on IM for you is an ioi. Ignore the boyfriend topic unless she brings it up again. Then you need to run some BFD material. This topic seems relevant boyfriend-destroyer-bfd-vt48923.html?highlight=

And for future reference, when you meet in person go for the number. It makes things easier.

sounds good