Hi i just started doing OKC to practice my chatting skills with girls. I have had previous success in person scoring phone numbers and all, but I guess i just have that one issue of moving things around. last game i held that actually went into physical meeting felt more like a give away vs an actual win. I met a girl, talked for a week or 2, went on 2 dates, and ended up having oral sex. My issue now is trying to build a real relationship with someone. Heres how i generally do my buisness:

1. find girl
2. message her something random i pick up off the profile
(ex. she likes the beach + lives inland my reply, "How do you love the beach if your stuck inland with no beachs?" so far ive sent out 100 message to people had 49 of them viewed and held 29 conversations. they range from HB7~9 or HB5~8 /w personalities)
3. talk for a bit random crap adding playful jokes

from here im kinda blank, i dont know if im having issues myself pulling the trigger but i dont want to be too hasty flirt since its just messaging instead of im'ing. what i was hoping for was someone who wanted to talk some bit about online dating // rl dating as well and just play with personal thoughts and all.

really long spew of chat so if tl;dr id say this. Im interested in meeting somone here to learn the steps of socializing. i know the general mindset but want to learn more in detail.