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PostPosted: Fri Jul 24, 2009 4:13 am 
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Ok.
So I'm gaming a few girls through Myspace, Tagged, etc...
Some don't respond, comments or messages, but when they respond I basically have them.
Anyways...
I've really met like ... 2 girls on real life, through online websites. And most of them were like a 1 week lets go out, f stuff etc...
I'm wondering...
Once you actually meet her in person. Do you keep gaming?
Do you keep being cocky and funny, negging her? I mean, she's already agreed to go out with you, so she is into you.
Most of them actually told me that the only reason they're going out with me or even replying my messages its because I approached differently.
And over the course of a few days I think I built attraction (I give points to them, when they say something clever, and I'm like at 50, you get a kiss, so one girl is at 40 and she's like "Almost at the goal)
Should I open up more, like talk about sentimental stuff, and more relationship kinda stuff when we actually meet in person?
What is your advice?

Offtopic: How many girls is considered "a lot" or "excess" (as if seeing too many girls at the same time) ... I basically have from Wednesday to Sunday with a different girl.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 24, 2009 12:29 pm 
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Ok.
So I'm gaming a few girls through Myspace, Tagged, etc...
Some don't respond, comments or messages, but when they respond I basically have them.
Anyways...
I've really met like ... 2 girls on real life, through online websites. And most of them were like a 1 week lets go out, f stuff etc...
I'm wondering...
Once you actually meet her in person. Do you keep gaming?
Do you keep being cocky and funny, negging her? I mean, she's already agreed to go out with you, so she is into you.
Most of them actually told me that the only reason they're going out with me or even replying my messages its because I approached differently.
And over the course of a few days I think I built attraction (I give points to them, when they say something clever, and I'm like at 50, you get a kiss, so one girl is at 40 and she's like "Almost at the goal)
Should I open up more, like talk about sentimental stuff, and more relationship kinda stuff when we actually meet in person?
What is your advice?

Offtopic: How many girls is considered "a lot" or "excess" (as if seeing too many girls at the same time) ... I basically have from Wednesday to Sunday with a different girl.

You be consistent! She was interested in the funny, different, guy she met and spoke to online and she can turn to her friend if she wants some emotional tampon! I mean how disappointed would you be if this HB 10 asks to meet you offline and she is actually HB6!

To many girls is usually when I have to pencil them in my diary, or I forget their names, or just about anything we have spoken about.

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Should I open up more, like talk about sentimental stuff, and more relationship kinda stuff when we actually meet in person?
Reealllllllly?! You have not even met and your talking about relationship kinda stuff?

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 24, 2009 3:38 pm 
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I'd go for just be yourself, comfortable & relaxed. Add a bit of game here and there when you feel its necessary to keep her guessing. But as you say she's already shown interest and wants to meet up.

I think for me the hardest is kino escalation on a cold encounter. It's important to just build comfort find similar interests and non interview style questions. Just get past that awkwardness and she'll be comfortable with kino. I'm hoping this comes naturally on the 2nd date and you can really ramp things up! :)

However many you are comfortable with. Tbh you don't need to remember anything you've really said online so don't make that a sticking point. Just say you wanted to see them in person as 90% of communciation is non verbal so profiles really mean nothing. You thought they could be interesting and attractive and wanted to see more! You're doing a good job of converting them into dates without investing too much time in emails. Be honest with them and say you've been on lots of dates and you'll try and fit them in :) (preselection to a degree). Shows you're busy and lots of girls are interested = she thinks you're not an internet weirdo and other girls are keen on you. Hopefully this should make her less guarded.


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 6:31 am 
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i like the points system lol.


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 5:08 pm 
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Once you actually meet her in person. Do you keep gaming?
Yes. Just because you got her to meet her in person does not mean you should stop your game.
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Do you keep being cocky and funny, negging her?
I would but that is just me.
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I mean, she's already agreed to go out with you, so she is into you.
Not necessary. As you said they agreed to meet you because you approached them different so you stood out from the other guys. They meet you because you where different not because they where interested in you.

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Should I open up more, like talk about sentimental stuff, and more relationship kinda stuff when we actually meet in person?
Ya if you don't want to meet her again. :wink: But seriously when you first meet it is best to keep things light and fun. Talking about relationship and sentimental stuff is a bit heavy for the first meeting. If the conversation goes that way thats another thing but don't bring it up.
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Offtopic: How many girls is considered "a lot" or "excess" (as if seeing too many girls at the same time) ... I basically have from Wednesday to Sunday with a different girl.
For me when it comes to dating/going out with girls I say for me anything more than 5 girls per week is to much. As anything more than that I start to loose who is who for me at least. But I am more looking for a relationship than one night stands.


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Relating to the M3 Model.

Once you meet the girl in person you start at A2 again!

Attract here, Comfort Her and Seduce her to tears.

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