hey guys,

i have found a girl who is coming to my country in the next weeks and i've just asked her some certain questions about this holidays and she seems interested ... but as i asked her if she's coming alone she replied back by this

'' im alone for first 2 days then my boyfriend coming for 4 days and then my friend coming for last 5 days''

what should i repy back to this ?? cause i'm getting confused after that answer ...

Simple terms:

Day 1-2: If you have good game you can have fun time with her.

Day 3,4,5,6: She is her boyfriends sex toy

Day 7,8,9,10,11: If her friend is hot you can try her, if you are amazing you can have a threesome.

If none of this works:

Day 1-11 you will be with your right or left or maybe both if you are hung.

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"That's how you become great, man. Hang your balls out there!"--Copy store clerk (Jerry Maguire)

pretty much.

hey guys, i've one it
after that message i just messaged back and we have to meet now but i'm starting to get nervous and have a lot of anxiety :S

any suggestions what can i do when we meet up to look relax and not anxiet ...

below there's the meesages .. tell me what you think

HB - im alone for first 2 days then my bf coming for 4 days and then my friend coming for last 5 days

ME - cool !! so you will not be alone ...

HB - only for first 2 days

ME - if you want to meet in those 2 days for a drink just message me ...

HB - good, can i have your number?

ME - yeah sure ... +XXXXXXXXXXX
so, i will hear from you ..

HB - definately, mine +XXXXXXXXXXX

Relax! Prepare but do not overcomplicate the situation. Just go there to enjoy yourself and give your best game and if things take a turn for the worse learn from what you did wrong.

Its an opportunity.

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"That's how you become great, man. Hang your balls out there!"--Copy store clerk (Jerry Maguire)

yeah it's a great opportunity but i'm afraid since this is gonna be my first ''date'' ...

i was thinking to take her in a pub for a drink and just talk like that .. but i'm afraid that i will stuck when i start to talk her and never talk ... and this is the most thing that i'm afraid off 'silent' ...

any ideas how to overcome this problem and any ideas about what things should i talk to her ??

and what do you think about the place ' the pub' ?? is it a good idea ?? i prefer a place like that than a restaurant or a cafeteria ...

hey guys any help please ??

Its not a date it is an opportunity.

Okay if you want this to be exciting and have a better chance of interacting do not do something boring. No offence but how often do you go Pub with your friends (alot of you are of legal age, and not religious!).

Do something exciting, that can be the topic of the day during the activity and after. Hell go Pub after you have spent a day paint balling, rock climbing, riding a white whale the list is endless.

Not to mention you will enjoy your time more, feel less nervous. Also it would be more memorable between the both of you, as opposed to do you remember when we went to the pub together. Not to mention her boy friend might get more jealous over the two of you doing something really exciting together that they have not experienced before.

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"That's how you become great, man. Hang your balls out there!"--Copy store clerk (Jerry Maguire)

hey thanks...

i don't think that we go for a paint ball or any activity like that is a good idea .. since this is gonna be the first time that we are going to see each other ... i think that pub will be more relaxed ... but the question is about what topics i can talk to her ??? .. my problem is that i will stuck what i'm going to say and become quite and then annoying her...

i was thinking to go with my friend to meet her although it doesn't seem a good idea since she's gonna be alone ...

what do you think ??

A good first date is something noncommittal (cheap, easy to leave), sociable (where you can talk a lot), and memorable (something out of the ordinary).

Taking her to the pub is okay and things COULD go very well, but you're not using all the tools you have available. Maybe paintball is a bit wild for a first date, but what about a paddleboat ride? Or a walk in the park with a stop for ice cream? Or hell, if there's a few in walking distance, try to see how many different pubs you can get a drink at in one evening - do something to make it an adventure!

Stop worrying about what to talk about. Talk about whatever the hell you want. Tell funny stories. Ask her about the craziest thing she's ever done. Let the conversation guide itself instead of trying to jerk it around between prewritten topics.

yeah the pub where i am planning to go is situated in a town where there are many bars and clubs near each other so we can go to any other bar or club .... but still i don't like to dance cause i don't feel good when i try to dance cause i start to imagine the people who are watching is laughing to me ...

hey guys ...
today this girl who i was chatting with came to my country ... and as i shown you in the conversation i asked her if she wants to meet for a drink since the first two days she's going to be alone ... and she accepted that since as i gave her my phone number and asked her if i will listen from her, she replied back with ''definately'' and gave me her phone number ...

today it's the first day here for her and still she didn't messaged ... what should i do ?? should i message her ??? or wait for tomorrow ??

thanks

help me out please ..