Last night I went out with a bunch of friends. The last bar we went to there was a 2 set (both females hb7 and hb9). It was a karaoke bar and it turns out it was hb7s bday. My friend was going to buy them shots so i waited with them and started talking. Finally I got to the best friend test, they loved it. Then i did the "PEN15" club on the target. Made them laugh, and talked to them for a while. The shots were up, but it turns out that another friend was buying a round for the group i was with (not the girls) so the girls naturally floated back to their group of friends. A minute or two later they looked like they were packing up so i went over and asked if they were leaving. The target told me i had to try to convince the bday girl to stay (hb7).

I said: "oh thats alright i think we are leaving too, but me and a couple of my friends are going out friday you guys should tag along."

hb9: "that sounds like a lot of fun, you're not lying to me right" (she asked because of a previous conversation)

me: "no"

hb9: "okay, cause i never lie"

me: "then you won't lie about your phone number"

hb9: "nope"

so i hand her my phone and she puts in her number and part of her name, i finish her name (she didn't know how to work the phone). Then i tell her i will text her and she should text me back so i knew i had the right one. I texted her and no reply. I have a feeling she typed it in wrong?? She seemed comfortable with me and like she really wanted to hang out on friday....but no reply. Anyways, i think i have found her on facebook. My question is do i add her as a friend, send her a message, or send her another text?

If i sent her a message on FB what would be a good thing to say with out sounding like a stalker. Here are some things i was thinking:

she had a sick friend so i could send her a message say: "did your friend end up puking"

she was at the karaoke bar: "i met you at the karaoke bar right?"

lastly "i thought you said you never lie"

or i would gladly take any other suggestions. Also, i am not 100% sure that its the same person on FB that i met (so i was thinking the 2nd option)...i wish there was someway to check the phone number (I could maybe call tomorrow). Any opinions would be appreciated.

whatever you do don't text again because if its the right number, you'll appear clingy.

i'd add her on fb and say "were you one of the girls from the karaoke bar the other night?"

make sure you say 'one' as it makes her seem less special and is partly a DHV because you "met" more than one girl.

if still no reply, leave it and move the fuck on and find someone else.

-teen

Call that number! If she answers:
HB9"hello?"
You"hey, sherry? (whatever her name was)
HB9"ya who is this?" or "no who the hell is this?"
bla bla bla. Have a fun convo and get her to come to the thing on Friday. I wouldn't make any references to her lying or getting that text unless she brings it up.

If she doesn't answer, hopefully she has her personal answering machine. Leave a message. If its a completely different person message her on FB! If the FB chick is a completely different person.. well.. you have no choice but to move on!

That's just what I would do. Good luck!