ok so theres this girl at my school, we both like each other but seems the longer i take to close her (since i go real slow) the less attracted she gets, we never really had a solid conversation other than school work, there was a one time we flirted a little but it lead back to school work because she had to go to her tutor, If i did it any other way i feel its too direct, its college ill see her every week and stuff so theres no rush, right?

so i got her email because she said she'd help me on my essay, I got spring break and theres a Car show at my city, i want to take her out there, i know theres gotta b comfort built over emails i think,

anyway i dont know how i can effectively transition from school work help frame thats been built it in to a flirty fun "we should hook up and go out" type of frame, i want help on my email so i dont change frame too quick and it looks like i just wanna get in her pants

Dude, I think you know what you have to do, so just go ahead and do it. Speed things up,,, alot.

Emails? Keepem short, sassy, and to the point. Just get a commitment on the date and forget all the "buddy" talk for now.

She's probably sees your hesitation as a sign of weakness. So just go for it.