There's a first time for everything! LOL This should get interesting... She's in a sorority (of course), and loves to party. I'm posting this so you guys can learn something from my successes too...

Subject: Oh no....
My message:

blonde
sorority girl
with a Yorkie.

That's 3 strikes! I might as well just call you Paris Hilton. I'm not really interested in being in your latest sex tape... sorry [neg + sexual framing right from the start! woooo!]
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Response:

OUCH.... my yorkie is a mini pitbull lol and yeah i chose to be social in school and make a difference helping rasie money for the school of death and blind by joining a sosority and making my frat dad happy... and i guess you couldnt handle a blonde stunt chick anways... [hardcore qualifying!]

i feel sorry for a guy like you who judge before they really know someone and will miss out on knowing someone fun smart caring and good looking... [insult]

sorry did you make the mistake of making a sex tape and then it in the end get burned? [invitation to answer]
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My response:

LOL

yeah we're totally not going to get along... you won't take my shit, and i won't take your shit... we'll end up butting heads monday through friday, just to have kinky make up sex on the weekends... which would almost be worth it... except the rug burns would be horrible. lol [disqualifier + playful sexual framing]

I love your dog tho... i've always had a big soft spot for animals... i used to volunteer at a shelter. i swear tho, you'd better not carry it around in a little purse! [qualification with a push... get her back on my side but not too far!]

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"A man is but the product of his thoughts, what he thinks, he becomes." - Mohandas Gandhi

Not too bad. I've had a lot of on line success and as a general rule I dont neg on the first message but you got her to reply preety lengthy.

Id be curious as to how she replied the second time, if at all.

I don't neg _at all_ online. But on the other hand, I've also never successfully opened a 10 before (I've tried just about everything, too)..... So negging works for 10's. That's it. New rule. LOL

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"A man is but the product of his thoughts, what he thinks, he becomes." - Mohandas Gandhi

Negging works but, right off the bat it can be construed as an insult. She has no frame to place it in.

Develop a frame of playful, funny etc. Then the neg will work 100x better

Took her a while, but she did respond! I'm a little at a loss at what to say.

She wrote:
kinky make up sex hmmm just no tapes, k Hun ? sarcasim is a plus!!


edit: went with this:

no tapes? yeah okay... and then we can give up drinking and go play chess. no really, that sounds like fun, lets do that!
Hey! speaking of which... it's almost the weekend! you know what that means!! that's right - drunken guitar hero until 3am. haha

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"A man is but the product of his thoughts, what he thinks, he becomes." - Mohandas Gandhi