Hey Guys,

This is my first post. I have been lurking the forums for a few weeks now, and just last night I created my first POF profile (its really just a picture right now, I haven't put anything else in it). A HA8 (hot asian added me to her favorites. so I sent her a message:

Me: You have beautiful hair, is it a wig?

HA8: lol, no



I don't really know where too go from here. I used to be really smooth, and have no problem with women. But after graduating from College a few years ago, moved across the country, and started working 70-80 hrs a week. From that point I completely turned into the stereotypical AFC.

Well you did something wrong there.
It seems as if the first thing you said to her was a NEG. That's wrong dude.

Openers always come first, remember that!

NM, just found a post similar to mine and will try the advice given. Will post back once I have results!