this conversation start in the bottom, i have it with this girl she is a 9, in look but witha really high shield.... How can i handle this??
Make critics and comments please.


the conversation goes like this:

Amazing;x:
indeed

Me

02.20.09
hahaahaha you have a lot of selfsteem girl

' Amazing;x:

02.20.09
Ha. I'm use to it.

Me

02.20.09
all those guys hitting on you, that cant be easy Smile

' Amazing;x:

02.20.09
Hurt?

Me

02.20.09
uhm ok ok by the way does it hurt?

' Amazing;x:

02.20.09
Depends I guess.

Me
02.20.09
are you always so misterious or is just to keep people's attention??

' Amazing;x:

02.20.09
What do you mean ?

ME:
02.20.09

that HA HA didnt sound very real . And you are not to sure about what?


' Amazing;x:

02.20.09
Ha ha. I'm not too sure.

Me
Are you as interesting as you look?

This conversation is painful...

Find something she's interested in and play into that (you did that, went there, had fun...). Completely drop whatever you're talking about now.

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"A man is but the product of his thoughts, what he thinks, he becomes." - Mohandas Gandhi

She doesn't have a high shield we just need to work on your conversation skills and/or routines stacks.

She doesn't really have much to comment on with what you've said to her. Why not ask her open ended questions to get her talking more? Instead of close ended questions or statements that get these types of responses.

Things like "What was it like growing up for you?"

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

isee what you mean, i didnt leave any space for her to give opinions or comments, i asked a question and answered it myself.... Is any way to save this conversation? how would you do it?

What do her pictures say? What are her interests? Is she a snowboarder?

If she were, and you were too, play up on that... say you were just at Mount Menow last week and it was awesome. IMHO building commonalities is very powerful for turning "some random internet guy" into her next ________. Where you get to fill in the blank.

The point I'm trying to make is you need to avoid the fluff talk and talk about something of interest to her... who doesn't like talking about their own interests? Make your comments fun, and make them exciting.

"You went to Mount Menow!?!? OMG I was there last week!! Did you see the guy in the bunny suit? hahaha"

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"A man is but the product of his thoughts, what he thinks, he becomes." - Mohandas Gandhi

I get it now, now i see why just in few cases i like get a number or not, I just stayed with the opener phase and never made a transition. T?hx dude