Introduction

Yes..Yes Taken from the popular song and Film of What a Girl Wants. There have been numerous studies on the opposite sex by the opposite gender but have you really taken a step into the Female's shoes sat down and watched it through their eyes. Well Solomon II and I ot to talking and wondering about the approach of AFC's on Hb 8-10s. While i thought it was decent he thought it was well below average.. guess who was right?

What did we do?

Well since we couldn't become a girl (no smart comments) we did the next best thing, We created an account over an HB to see how AFC's react to "the new girl on campus" So what seperates you from the other million guys on the website, well tlak about this later. Now lets talk about our little experience.

Their approach

Not even 30 seconds let alone an actual minute after we created our account we had several men messaging us. Well did they come at us with humor? Did they try to start an interesting conversation? Did they do anything above average? The answer to all these questions above is.. you guessed it no. From the beginn we had recieved several " Hey how are you" or "Whats up" and the ever popular "Hey beautiful/pretty lady". Even some who came off flexing without a shirt in some of their attchments to thier messages hoping to raise their level of attraction. Needless to say it was shocking how this happend in only a matter of seconds.
We even recieved one fella who had an entire letter written out to our girl within our first few seconds. For now we'll call him Dude A because we will be getting back to him oh boy will we. The more time we spent on the site the more "hey's we recieved, Only one fella managed to stand out.
He was calm cool collected started with a nice neg. He did some push pull and didn't seem to desperate overall we were both imperssed.

The Shit Test

Every rose has its thorns.. i like this saying but anyway time to see if our guys can handle our little flower. Guess what...They couldn't. We sent " do you just message every new girl who comes on here?" and they freaked. Some guys read it then ignored it some deleted the ones who did reply back were defensive one dude said "Um...no y?" and lets not forget about Dude A. The man who sent us a letter came back with what we call "passive-agressive behaviour" in the words of solomon

"That guy is used to receiving negative responses from women and is generally angry and bitter towards them... he'll be genuinely nice at first but at the first sign that she's not interested he will get angry"

Yeah we can see that there were better response but mostly defensive anyway onto Phase 2.

Our Approach

What the freak! Women approaching men.. someone call the authorites.
Anyway sarcasm out the window whe sent a simple hey hello type message just to flip the switch to see how men could handle this. In our studies guys would come back and just say.. "sup" one even sent us a gift we will call him Dude B so we will be gettin back to him. Anyway one guy sent us a message asking "what are you doing tonight" Apparently hey is a sex invite now. So needless to say there wasn't any good answers. Expect for this one guy who actually DELETED our message that we sent to him. Needless to say wheter he actually didn't care or he was using some reverse pyschology on us. However this was more intersting to our study than most of everyone else. So i guess you have to be willing to lose to win oh well.

What about them

Dude A and Dude B our an example of what not to do Dude A sent about more messages telling off our girl being more and more. Don't do this.... Next Dude B sent us another message saying "I dont bite???" after we didn't reply. And attempted to IM me when i din't reply to that you know what that equals.. Creepy, Deseprate and Needy, and a girl would probably go more into this.

Closing Remarks
So how can we differenate ourselves from the AFCs and Stand out. Well I'm not JSmooth or anything but i have learned this. MAKE yourself stand out lets say you put your peacking on on your picture this is better than just you in a jogging suit. The subjct is very important after seeing so many "heys and hi" subject i stopped looking because i knew what they were gonna say. Survive the shit test instead of taking it personally, and just cause she says hey doesnt mean ask her out for dinner the same night. Since you can't show your body language on the internet and your voce you have something different instead your tone. For instance all captial letters can be referred to as shouting and so can other things sarcasm can often be tken offensively if not portrayed right. This is our little study and is only intended to help further your online game. Hope you enjoyed.

- V2

P.S. i might also show you guys some of the messages they sent not sure yet.

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