Here's the story: I’ve been meeting and dating women on about 11 Dutch social networking sites in total, and it didn’t take long before I realized that…ALL social networking sites have almost ALL profile areas in common. There may be an additional area here or another one there that you can focus on once you're able to achieve consistent success online...but kicking ass with 9 out of 10 areas right now will give you luxury problems like not knowing when to date what woman!

Here are the profile areas in order of importance:

1. Photos - she'll look at your photos FIRST, because a picture will tell her so much more then just some words..plus it tells her if you're cute or not. You can use them to let her know: she has competition (photos of you & other women), that you are a REAL guy and not some guy who's trying to be smooth (photos of you & family or friends), that you have a sense of class & style (your wardrobe and the people you hang out with on your photos, etc.), and more…see my other topic in this board for some more world-class tips.

Things to do:

• - Be a people’s person on your photos (have some photos with friends, family & women)
  - Smile, don’t wear the same kind of clothes in every pic, do some interesting places (you on vacation in… photos for example)
  - Show your passion and talents (if you love icehockey for example, use a photo of YOU doing it)

2. Descriptions - the area where you can talk freely about yourself, women watch HOW you talk about closely to find out who you are: it shows them if you're confident, if you're exciting or just some boring guy, if you're attractive or...a total wussy or a needy guy, etc. From your descriptions she can tell whether or not you have standards and an exciting life she would like to join..

Things to do:

• - Don’t be boring…and use humor in your descriptions, use some emoticons and EMPHASIZE some words to give them more emotional IMPACT
  - Tell about crazy experiences, wild adventures or your greatest passions and talk about it VIVIDLY: no I went to A, B and C but sensory details (how the setting smelled, sounded, felt, the colors and shapes) and emotional drama (how did you feel: anxious, happy, sad, enthusiastic, delighted, in love, etc.)
  - Show some standards: make fun of outrageous types of women you don’t like (for example pervy chicks surfing the internet looking for dudes to take advantage of)

3. Comments - this is the area where a woman can see how OTHER people talk about you, which tells her if you're a social guy who's comfortable around women (and not some nervous introvert), whether she has competition (making her jealous and want to fight for you), if you have fun and an exciting life and so forth.

Things to do:

• - Women receive 30-50 messages from men PER DAY, but only a handful of comments per week…so don’t hesitate to approach them with comments
  - Let other women happily chat away in your comments and do the same in their comments: it lets other women know they ahve competition and that you’re a desirable man..

4. Interests - what you like and dislike, it's the standard yes/no kinda questions on your profile...which she'll have a look at to see if you have things in common. But there are cool things you can do with interests to create massive amounts of curiosity and attraction..

Things to do:
Don’t be a good boy and fill in everything with boring crap, use humor like this…Hobbies: baseball, going out, crocodile wrestling, movies

5. Groups - social networks have all kinds of groups (like the "Asian corner" and the "latino pride" or whatever), and being a member not only allows you to talk to a woman easier (by talking about a common interest - the group you two are in) and there are many other ways too: forums, blogs of someone else (or yourself), etc.

Things to do:

• - There are groups for schools, work and cities…join them so you can easily approach women that are also members of that group (connecting with them will be easier because you have a history in common: “hey you went to Manhattan High School too? What class were you in again?” And blabla)
  - Join groups of your hobbies, likes, passions and activities…because having fun conversations with women who SHARE your passions is so easy a baby can do it (if you love baseball and she does too, sharing this common interest is a natural thing to do)

6. Friends - friends can tell a lot about a guy...how open minded he is (does the NYC guy only know New Yorkers or other people too? do you have black, latino or whatever nationality friends too?) and being open minded equals spontaneity, which women love..if you have female friends you can use that to let a woman know you have options, to create jealousy, competition...and there's lots more!

Things to do:

• - Let them know you’re a confident, open minded and desirable man…and have some female friends to create jealousy, have friends from all walks of life to show that you’ve been to places and are a REALLY social guy (this is social proof: that you have a life and you’re comfortable around other people, and women)
  - The girl you sent a message has female friends you probably wouldn’t find on your own…so why not message them too? Her male friends (and yours too) also know women you won’t find, why not message them too?

7. Media - sure you can put music or videos of Mortal Kombat, Star Wars, bloody violence and death metal bands on your profile...but the fact of the matter is: that's not what compells most women to find out more about you...but outrageous videos do, funny videos do, r&b music does..etc.

Things to do:

• - Show a hottie that you’re a trendy guy who stays current, that you know what women like and that you have good taste…and include some r&b, soul or nice & slow pop on your profile playlist
  - Don’t be afraid to show your sense of humor: include a funny video, a piece of a comedian’s show (Jeff Dunham for example is very popular these days)

8. Design - women like a man with a sense of style, with good taste..and a profile that looks better than just plain black & white simply compells women LESS than a profile with a cool background, a nice design, etc.

Things to do:

• - Use contrasting colors to make sure women can read EVERYTHING you have to say (plus, don’t overdo the happy happy factor with bright yellow OR the I’m as despressed as people can get look with grey and black)
  - Before signing up, choose a name that SAYS something compelling about you: not Brad10456, but if you love surfing waveswarriorbrad, not Timabcd but if you’re a lumberjack champchoppertim…it sparks curiosity and shows your talents (which is attractive)

And the funny thing is: the vast majority of men are only AWARE of the opportunities of number 1, 2 and 4...so my advice is...

…Drumroll please...

Use ALL 8 of them when you're on a social networking site, and implement those hidden tactics I shared with you..in fact, the more profile areas you use in a compelling way, the MORE success you’ll have. Try it out like I did and see for yourself what the results are…