Ok Im on zoosk, its like "a whole lotta fish" or whatever, but its really limited what you can put on your profile.

I have real basic required info, five photos of me peacocking and being a total stud at parties and just looking good (im sexy), and then I wrote this on my "life story."

"Im a real nice guy, but I do the things most of you are afraid to try. Why not? In the end everybody has regrets, while I am still collecting crazy stories to tell.

Looking for a crazy, fun, adventurous, sexy girl to be my friend and lover. Even if it doesn't work out, its always good with more friends.

Introverted or fearful girls need not apply, unless you are looking to actually change your life for the better. (Hey I used to be shy, too!)"

Then, I mass flirted with every girl that meets my standards, until I wasnt sure if I had flirted them yet or not. Im not sure, probably spammed at least fifty girls. I used this line, its the max length allowed, unfortunately.

Do you think its gay for a guy to take poledancing classes? I just started, Im collecting girls opinions to show my friends who are too scared. =) (This is true btw)

Now, Ive been on this site for maybe two months, Ive managed to start chats with probably 30 or 40 girls, most of them short and flakey, but funny. Ive hooked up with 3 girls so far, (another in the line) and scored one of them. Its kinda slow, and I am sure the women are simply inundated with guys hitting on them, so im happy enough for the spontaneous flirts ive received. My whole thing tho, is to kick it up a notch.... what do you guys think, will it work, or not, why?

I will definitely let you know shortly of course, this is a scientific experiment, after all! =)

Ok I just added a few control groups. I sent the same message to a bunch more girls, this time some I have been chatting with but got not too far (about 15 girls) and then a group of girls I sent messages to, and who checked my profile out (yes you can see this! Its about the only good thing with zoosk), but didnt respond (about 10 girls). So now we can really get scientific! Woot math!

Most women on any given social or dating site are usually overwhelm with guys hitting on them, especially the more physically attractive one.

I never heard of Zoosk, but I quickly checked it out and I have to say its more like Hot Or Not then POF. But I give it a shot. I think I will go the opposite direction than you and have a picture or two of me not peacocking and see how that plays out.

yeah I have tried like a million things, i put a post up on (jsmooths?) "ask me for online game help" thread. Ive gotten varied responses, using everything to super AFC to super CF to strange and wierd to flat out describing myself as the perfect Mr Right.

Well, its only been what, 12 hours? And I already got three hits, two of them from girls I had chatted before with zero response, so I am going to cautiously say that this one looks like an early success.

Its a tenuous 2 for 3 that poledancing for men is not gay. I cant believe this, but one girl actually responded with "What's pole dancing?" LOL!!! Ok she is Danish and I wrote it in English, but still, damn!

The second girl said its hawt, and I cant believe this, but she was introduced to me at a party by one of my HB8 GF's, and I was a little too drunk to remember it! DOh! Wondering what in the hell to say to her to make a save.

The third girl said its definitely not gay, and went further to ask me if I am awesome because it sounds like I am..

Got another two hits already, one a dead sexy 23 yr old HB8, Im teasing her about a pic of her in her panties...

The other a beautiful swedish girl, blonde and blue eyes, would be an easy 8 but she is kinda missing her boobs.. .oh well chatting her up as we speak anyhow, she is fun. =)

I gotta say, this is working far better than anything Ive tried so far..

Second day, Ive gotten four hits so far and its only 2pm over here, one of them is busy chatting with me as we speak. I cleaned up my profile a tad, just a little subtle subconscious polish, and Ive spread the flirt to another 20 or 30 girls, so we will see how it looks on day 3. This is definitely a success tho, I would usually get this many responses in a week, not in a day.

End of the second day and another six girls responded, one of them was a real cold fish from before but now she is really talking to me (and cute!).

I will post tomorrows results as well, but otherwise unless some folks comment, will let this thread die, which is too bad because this is a serious online success story..

Sounds like you found a hotspot. lol

ahah i got this reply..... how would you reply it




"erm. it's quite gayish i think...
thinking what's the use of it?
dont mind me, pole dancing for guys looks like gigolo or man power. . LOL!
anyway... that's a very random question you're giving me, especially when we dont know each other.
but overall, pole dancing is fine (:
you should try belly dancing too. HAHA"

Since Im actually doing it, its easier for me to answer. I would say the truth..

Well I started it for shits and giggles, to show my girlfriends that I wasnt afraid to do something crazy with them. Besides I have a very open personality that doesn't say no to things just because its out of the ordinary, or because other people might laugh. Anyhow I found out its a lot harder than I ever thought! Im pretty athletic, but damn Ive never tried to be so acrobatic before and it takes a lot of strength!! Its also really, really fun! Fuck I am glad I joined it!

As for being gay, I dont see whats gay about being in a class full of hot, sexy girls who are all smiling at you because you have the balls to try something with them that no other man will. Its not like I am going to be shaking my ass at a gaybar. Like I said, I didnt take the class to be a pole dancer, I took it for the crazy experience! In the end, I am going to be a lot better off for having done it as well.

Belly dancing? Not challenging enough. Besides, that is pretty gay.

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Of all the responses Ive gotten so far (twenty or so), only two girls responded with "its gay." One of those I am chatting with big time right now, she is cute and she is definitely sure now that I am not gay. =) The other one was rude and narrow minded. I could really care less what she thinks, so I let her go play with herself.

the lousiest reply i gotten is ' i guess its ok? ' =.=

Yeah ive gotten a couple of those as well. WOW! stop right there honey, your conversational skills are just staggering, I bet you are way too fun for little old me... Meh, some girls are just boring.

I havent been spamming it for the past few days... just wanted to see what would happen. I got a small trickle on day three and four, it seems to have hit zero now. I got a ton of girls checking out my profile from it, who decided not to answer anyhow. But danish girls can be very reserved up front, and my profile is the absolute opposite, so I am probably turning a few off right there. If thats true, its pretty damn good results that I did get so many responses so early, and If I am filtering the reserved girls out, all the better. Dont wanna date them anyhow, BORING!

Ive got five or six pretty solid conversations going because of this, I think two or three of those I should definitely be able to flip into a hookup now, barring any bad luck.

It was fun, now I am going to try to write the perfect passive danish profile, and let it sit a week or two, and see what kind of girls end up flirting me on their own.

I am going to test out Zoosk this weekend and see how it goes. As I have some time to send out a couple of messages and fix up my profile.

Well I guess girls take the weekends off from zoosking. After a few dead days, I suddenly started getting messages in my box again about the poledancing. Heh.. =P