After you added the target at myspace or some other social network how do you safely set up a meeting after talking for a while at MSN?

How do you do this so it's natural and safe to her?

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I dont really know to much about this, but i would try something like, Well we have been talking for a while, an you look very cool, but i am still wondering if you are real, lets hang out to see if it is true ( i just invente dthat, no idea if it is somehting you could use) or you could just tell her, what are you doing tomorrow, nothing? well we are going to ----------- ( where ever you want)

I unusually say lets exchange numbers then talk on the phone for no more than 45 minutes and near the end of that conversation I usually try and set up a time to meet at some public place.

Present a no pressure opportunity for a quick meet. Do not ask her if she wants to come along.

example:

"Hey, I have to go to Target/Walmart/the gap/whatever after lunch to pick up some things. You're welcome to tag along, but you'll have to bring your own money."

If it works out good, continue the date by bouncing to somewhere nearby. If she turns out to be a grizzly, you can run to other "errands" without seeming weird. Because it's no pressure, and only 15 minutes, she'll be more likely to adjust her schedule if she has any interest in meeting you at all. Plus if you're a creeper, she can run.

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