| 1. Firstly, your online profile is of paramount importance. The first thing she will see is your profile picture, so make sure its a good one. One that shows just YOU. Not one where you are drunk with all your buddies.
2. There should be an interesting array of different photos. It is okay to show yourself out on the town with the lads, this shows that you have friends. But make sure the photos are flattering. A photo of you at a well known landmark would show that you are interesting, so if you've been travelling use a couple of good shots.
3. One mistake many guys make is that they are afraid of putting photos of their ex girlfriends on facebook. They think that this will put other girls off. This is not true. Having photos of your ex with you having a good time shows that other women find you desirable, and therefor so should everyone else. But limit this to a maximum of 2 different girls. If you have never had a girlfriend then show photos of you with a friend who is a girl...this will have to surfice...for now anyway.
4. Also if you have an interesting hobby ie surfing, rock-climbing anything that makes you look interesting, then put that up. I personally use a photo of me standing on one elbow as i am a break dancer although i recognise not everybody has this skill.
5. It is a good idea to probably have no more than 20 photos on your entire profile. After all, you don't want to look like you spend your entire life on facebook. So make sure that these few photos are all great and specific.
6. Never put your relationship status as single, or in open-relationship. In fact the best thing you could do would be to switch this option off entirely. She will be more intrigued by this.
7. Erase any negative wall postings that paint you in a bad light, you are after all a great guy.
8. If you have existing attractive female friends, then send them a nice wall posting complimenting them, or saying that you should hang out sometime (even if you don't intend to). You can erase the message which you wrote from your wall and hopefully she will write back with something like "hi how are you doing, long time...we should catch up sometime". Try and collect as many of these on your wall as possible.
9. It is not a good idea to have your profile opened up for random access. When you message attractive girls in the hope that they will message back they will only be able to see half of your profile, again creating intrigue and they are much more likely to add you as a friend so that they can see your entire profile.
10. Also don't ever write in the what i'm doing today section as this shows that you have little better to do. You need to show yourself as being busy. A slight exception would be if you have something very exceptional that you are doing or have something very funny to say, but limit this to once a month at most.
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11. In the description areas list your job and hobbies, again make them interesting. Don't over do this section, you have to create intrigue.
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