It appears to me that LSE girls are hard as hell - because they're always to be negative. I'm guessing no matter how much I feed her positive she'll always want to redirect the conversation on how bad she feels, thus wanting me to give her attention. So, I need a little assistance here. I could just LJBF her and that's it - however, I could just try to increase her self-esteem but however, there's a root steming the problem - which I won't be able to fix. I know this and I know I can't do anything. Which sucks - because I like helping people and save princesses in Distress! LOL!
The first message was a negative because of her headline wrote: Guy's suck - just be a lesbian. I know she's doing that out of frustration. But here we go!
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I know what you mean! Girls say they want a nice guy - but they date assholes! So, don't think you have it all bad! I'm too ugly to find a girl to like me.
-Paul
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lo yea i hear ya. i think i watch too much maury cuz i get all emotional seeing ppl being cheated on by thei husbands & bfs with kids & all. but w/e i dont care guys are assholes above all. thats y im so picky. i have all these requirements for a guy & none ive been with met all them & i refuse to date ne one who doesnt have all of them.
In the next message I attempt to hook into a postive conversation.
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Well being picky isn't going to get you anywhere. I know how it feels - to find the perfect someone. The point is that we're all humans - we make mistakes. Also, it could be that you have too mamy standards which are making the guy's you want - not come to you. People can sense that by their body language or vibe they sense. Men may not have the best intuition compared to women. What is the most happiest moment you've been in a relationship or perhaps in your childhood?
-Paul
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the happiest ive been was wen my last bf proposed to me on new years eve a coupla years ago, i was high on coke that nite but it was just the 2 of us & no one else & it wasnt even the drugs i was just happy because of the seriousness of the moment rite then & there.
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Coke like in Soda?
LOL! I know what you mean. Not into drugs though but that's cool - we're still friends. You're not a pusher are you?
I tossed a teasing manner - and a push\pull.
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a pusher?
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ur not bad looking by the way so dont down urself. if n e thing im the one that isnt attractive at all. im so fucking fat its not funny, whether or not u wanna believe it.
She wrote two messages within the same time-frame. Right after another. So, I def. got her hooked plus an IOI. However, I don't know if I should pursue the target.
She doesn't look bad - pretty face but not so body. However, which I think alittle motivation she'll should be able to loose weight. It's not that bad kinda weight. Alot of it is probably due to depression\drugs\etc..
How should I continue?
Also, not to add - I commented on her photos - one was a picture of dolphins. I added saying, that I was in florida and it's a long story that I'll have to continue with her if she wants. Plus, a picture of her smiling that I told her she has a pretty smile. I was going to put nice smile but I wanted to say pretty but I however, don't think it would be any good because since she has low self esteem - it would be hard to boost her self esteem with a pretty smile. She'll probably look at it and go, "I don't know if I do" but it doesn't hurt to try.
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