i found this one i have used it with change to fit me, it seems to work


First about myself, then what I'm looking for in a women. For starters, I'm not here looking for someone to love me. I do love myself plenty. I understand that a relationship is supposed to enhance your life as a person, not make or break it. I'm looking for someone to love. When I think about an ideal relationship for me, most of my thoughts veer towards what I'd like to provide for the other person. Things I'd cook, restaurants I'd take her out to, theme parks we'd go to, impromptu road trips we'd take, favors I'd like to pay. I really think the desire to provide for someone else is one of the major hallmarks of maturity, and it is one I look for in people I spend time with. And so by extension of that I guess I'm...looking for someone to love me? No one ever said this dating thing would make sense. Hah.......

My ideal girl has a seriously tweaked sense of humor, but tact. A lack of inhibitions, but a good amount of discipline. An artistic streak, and a healthy respect for her body. I'd like to meet someone I can ride down down to the Keys with at the drop of a hat all while blasting any kind of music. I love talking about ideas, possibilities, stories, and everything else. I'm not sensitive about political or religious beliefs, and I've never been sure why anyone else is. Like me, she doesn't see things in shades of good or bad, but in different shades of interesting and dull. Save for heartbreak and physical pain...those things generally suck. She knows that the only way to fully know someone else is to exert your personality full tilt boogie and to see them react.



You are the man. Thanks for Borrowing this and sharing it. the only problem is they are qualifying themselves and writing damn books~!


She also has character. She does what's right simply because it's the right thing to do. She does the right thing regardless of whether she likes the person in front of her, regardless of what the people surrounding her are doing, and regardless of how hard it is. She is as honest and blunt as the ocean is damp, and she knows that the truth is infinitely more fascinating and helpful than what sounds smooth, or proper. She's self reliant, pays her own rent, has her own car, and no one has control over her life. She's fearless and loves adventure. She doesn't quake in her boots over what other people might think about her when a fun idea pops up. She is 20 years of age or older.