Recently I’ve been getting a few Friend Requests/emails and decided to try coming up with my own material for a reply. Any criticism well come so I can develop my game.

How I intend it to work is this...when you get a friend request don't accept it, email them first! (I figure this will DHV because you not adding everyone who requests you)

The Email
In the email you write...

Do I know you? I think you should introduce yourself before you look like a stalker :-p

(Playful neg, shows your social because you want to talk and get to know her, and you’re not just assuming she’s like every other girl. Should also build attraction because no one else would have sent her this kind of reply and she gets to talk….and females like to talk)

Her reply
Really don't matter what it is she says, most times she says tells you her name, where she’s from etc. you tell her...

That’s not good enough to get on to my friends list because shop assistances tell you nearly the same things. Tell me about yourself

She’ll normally reply with...

What do you want to know?

you reply with… tell me about yourself, your interests etc. Her reply doesn't really matter from here, just make out like she has not quite done enough to get onto your very, very, very special friends list for special people. Then she will start to prove herself as to why she should be on your list. If not, then go into the 3 traits.

What’s everyone think?

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'You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else.' Albert Einstein

I need a little help with a similar situation. What do you think my response should be on this. I'm a little stuck as to a good direction to take this and was looking for some advice. This chick is super cute and I don't want to blow it.
Thank you.

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From: HER
To: ME
Subject: Re: hi

nope... no hints... you just have to dig way back into your memory.


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From: ME
To: HER
Subject: Re: hi

yea you look familiar but i can't think of your name. is that bad? give me some hints.


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From: HER
To: ME
Subject: Re: hi

haha. true. do you now remember me at all?


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From: ME
To: HER
Subject: Re: hi

cool. well at least you know me and know i'm not some weirdo. so i think that might give me some extra points.


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From: HER
To: ME
Subject: Re: hi

you have... i just grew up and got cuter.


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From: ME
To: HER
Subject: Re: hi

yea. but i don't remember meeting you before.


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From: HER
To: ME
Subject: Re: hi

aren't you jen's brother?


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From: ME
To: HER
Subject: Re: hi

really?? how do you know me?


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From: HER
To: ME
Subject: Re: hi

hey!!!! i know you! how are ya?


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From: ME
To: HER
Subject: hi

hello there little lady

my reply would be are you that forgettable :-p

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'You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else.' Albert Einstein

thanks for the help. i wrote her back before you replied. but i thought i could work in your original one so i wrote this to her. - no reply yet.
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ok if you don't give me any hints than you might start looking like a stalker
also today is my birthday so you have to be nice to me.
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I think it would be better if you changed it to something more like:-

'Do i know you? You better introduce yourself before you appear like a stalker'

or

'.....i prefer everybody to introduce themselves before i add them to make sure aren't a starker/the stalker type, so introduce yourself'

or

'Do i know you? You better introduce yourself so i can make sure you're not just another stalker'

I think i like the last one best.

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To effectively communicate, we must realise that we are all different in the way we percieve the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.

come on people, help a guy out

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'You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else.' Albert Einstein