So I set up a date with this awesome young lady And I'm wondering should I still log in and use POF because she'll be able to see I'm doing it and I'm concerned she'll make judgements or assumptions about me

Don't worry about it. Just say your cell phone app is always logged in.

She is 'now online' too don't forget. So she won't say anything about it in most cases.

Well, at least you're away from the strip club so it's a good start...

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I'm not afraid of her voicing concerns to me, I'm concerned about her making judgements about me, maybe assuming I'm player or not that interested in he

Yeah, I'm officially done going to the strip club. I'm going one more time basically for the sole purpose of giving that dancer my number and telling her to get a hold of me if she wants... I'm not paying hundreds of dollars to see her now.The still club and my mentality was absolutely retarded. Maybe it was the sunk cost fallacy, maybe it was pure lust or legitameove but I am DONE wasting money on a girl who hasn't even kissed me. I'm doing well on POF thus far, three numbers sonfar. Fuck the club.

I'm not afraid of her voicing concerns to me, I'm concerned about her making judgements about me, maybe assuming I'm player or not that interested in he

Yeah, I'm officially done going to the strip club. I'm going one more time basically for the sole purpose of giving that dancer my number and telling her to get a hold of me if she wants... I'm not paying hundreds of dollars to see her now.The still club and my mentality was absolutely retarded. Maybe it was the sunk cost fallacy, maybe it was pure lust or legitameove but I am DONE wasting money on a girl who hasn't even kissed me. I'm doing well on POF thus far, three numbers sonfar. Fuck the club.

I'm not afraid of her voicing concerns to me, I'm concerned about her making judgements about me, maybe assuming I'm player or not that interested in he

Yeah, I'm officially done going to the strip club. I'm going one more time basically for the sole purpose of giving that dancer my number and telling her to get a hold of me if she wants... I'm not paying hundreds of dollars to see her now.The still club and my mentality was absolutely retarded. Maybe it was the sunk cost fallacy, maybe it was pure lust or legitameove but I am DONE wasting money on a girl who hasn't even kissed me. I'm doing well on POF thus far, three numbers sonfar. Fuck the club.

Why? You care about someone's opinion of you that you haven't yet met and who might even be crazy? Don't.

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How would she know you're still using POF if she wasn't using it?

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Now there's a mind-bender.

Bet ya didn't consider that, OP

This post almost pissed me off, but I took a deep breath and decided to be calm.

You're single.

You have a date set up with a girl that you're not even sure you're going to like and that you're not even sure will look remotely close to the way she does in her pictures. Why in the world would you be worried about what she's going think about you being on the site you found her on when you haven't even met her yet? You've gotta be kidding me.

Get on it and use it the way you always did.

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Well we went on the date, she looks like her pics and I had a great time.. Given that info would y'all still recommend getting on? Personally I want to but I'm still worried she'd think badly if I did.

Again...how will she know that you're still on POF? You are putting what she thinks of you before what you think of her.

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Did you miss this question? ^

And... are you in a relationship?

Did you guys discuss no longer using the site?

So what on God's earth or forum is the issue?

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Maybe she isn't using it and is just checking, is what I tell myself. No we are not in a relationship and we didn't discuss no longer using the site. My issue is that I', fearful she thinks I'm uninterested because I'm not messaging her yet I'm still getting on POF... A buddy of mine insist I only text a girl to set up a date, and for that purpose alone. This is another thing I'm really unsure about I'm hoping to get advice on from you.

So you're afraid to lose her? I hate to tell you this, but you are creating the mindset that will ultimately lose her.

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Just block her on POF (and tell you deactivated due to boredom if she asks) - does this need to go to page 2?

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